We’re so pleased to be partnering with our sponsor Capital One to help celebrate National Consumer Protection Week. We’ll be sharing cool, smart surfing tips on how to keep you and your family’s online privacy as safe as you can.
Now we love social networks, internet surfing and web shopping as much as the next mom, but as more of our time is spent in the cloud, we’re increasingly concerned about the information we’re sharing and how to protect our privacy. Lately, it’s been hard to tell what’s legit and what’s a big fat scam, and with our kids entering the online world too, it’s more important than ever to make sure we’ve got our personal information under a virtual lock and key.
We’ve put together 5 smart tips to help you keep your information private, especially if you’ve got kids in the house.
1. Keep an eye on those Facebook settings
We’ve written about it before and we’ll say it again–be sure to check your Facebook privacy settings on a regular basis. With so many frequent updates, it can be difficult to keep up with who’s seeing what. In other words, just because you’ve got “private” checked, it doesn’t necessarily mean your info is on lockdown. Be sure to take a few minutes every week or so to flip through your profile to make sure you’re not sharing your phone number and all your embarrassing high school photos with more than just your “friends.”
2. Learn about cookies. The no calorie kind.
Cookies are little bits of info that get stored on your computer from various websites–stuff like passwords, preferences, or your shopping cart. (Yay shopping carts!) They’re actually a good thing, and save you time when you return to favorite sites. But if you want to be sure they’re only being used by trusted sites, and not by less scrupulous folks, you want to enable cookie alerts through your browser. In addition, you can arrange your settings so the cookies are only stored for a limited time.
You can also be sure your info is safe and encrypted when there’s an https:// at the beginning of a website URL–probably what you’re used to seeing when you do online banking.
3. Going phishing
It seems that phishing scams are on the uptick these days, and even the most savvy of online users can be fooled by sophisticated but fraudulent emails or websites that want access to your personal info. If an email or website asks you to share personal information (including account, social security, or birthdate) as part of a survey, delete immediately. You can also use SurveyPolice.com to help check on the legitimacy of any website. Plus you can report phishing scams to most financial institutions and large ecommerce sites to help them shut them down.
4. Give a second thought to public Wi-Fi.
A recent New York Times article confirmed that public Wi-Fi makes it super easy for your personal information to be hacked. Yikes. Check your favorite blogs if you must (hello!) from the coffee shop, but it might be best to wait until you get home to check your bank account status or make purchases. If you have to check email or log in to any accounts, your best bet is to be sure to log out when you’re done. That latte and quick internet check shouldn’t cost you thousands of dollars.
5. Start talking to your kids about this stuff. Early.
Even if your kids are just hopping on the Internet to play educational games under strict supervision, it’s important that they understand the basic rules of safe Internet navigation, the same way they understand the basic rules of strangers on the street. Make sure it’s clear that they never share any type of personal information with anyone, and if they’re uncomfortable or unsure about a particular situation, they should come get you immediately. It’s never too soon to have a conversation about safety, online or off.
For more helpful tips, make sure to visit the very helpful National Consumer Protection Week website and check our sponsor Capital One and their helpful ID Theft and Fraud Prevention guide they’ve created with national consumer advocacy group Consumer Action. And follow them on Twitter where they focus on providing helpful financial education for families.
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I like using paypal so that you can limit the number of sites you must provide your credit card info to.
Tips:
Check your child’s history log to see where they have been online.
Talk with your child about what they are doing online and how to be safe.
Facebook requests users to be at least 13. I agree!
If your child has facebook, make sure you are on their friend list and check it often.
While I pay bills online and buy lots of things via the internet, I don’t access checking account online.
Blocking my mom on Facebook was the best form of privacy ever.
Setting Google alerts for your name and your kids’ names and your blog name is a good way to be aware of what’s floating around the interwebz.
Password protect your wifi at home. No matter how silly it seams, there are always people out there who want to use your connection. Can bog down your speeds and even access your personal info or print to your shared printers
One tip I have learned about helping with internet safety and privacy is to make my password as unique and possible. I’ve had my email hacked into before, so I now use very strong passwords, with a combination of upper and lower case letters, numbers, and special characters as much as possible when websites allow it.
If you have teenagers the best tip I can share is to keep up with current technology and ‘cool’ websites such as twitter and tumblr. I frequently use gizmodo.com to help keep me up to date.
My kids are older, and they know the basic rules of Internet safety, but they aren’t allowed to use any application/website until I know how to use it first.
Additionally, I have to be able to get into their accounts at all time, or they may no longer have that account.
An easy tip I learned was to have a set of passwords for work and home. Thanks for sharing!
To protect my family, I keep my personal information disconnected from my social networking as much as is possible. My (personal) facebook account is not connected to anyone that I don’t know personally, have not met in person. All my social networking is done under a psuedonym.
My advice: Be aware. Use these tips to help you be aware of what you are putting into the public space. And please let me win the iPad!!!
I love staying connected on Facebook, but I never play games or any applications that ask for access to your account, especially if someone sends them to me. Too many outside sources having access to your Facebook information is not a good thing.
My tip is for parents to keep their computers in a public place in the house. Thanks!
I periodically do a Google search on myself to see what comes up. Then if I feel like too much is visible, I make changes as I can on the links that are displayed. Also, you can search for yourself on http://www.spokeo.com, and click on “Privacy” at the bottom and remove any and all info that might be visible to searchers.
I also do google searches, but for my children as well. I found my oldest daughter listed on a few of those sites that link family members with pay for personal information. They were very prompt in taking down her name when I requested it. Only problem is, I have no idea how her info became public record (other than birth obviously).
My 5-year-old, who is just learning to read, loves to play games online, but we’re struggling with how to keep him safe. He’ll click on things because he doesn’t know what they are. For now, I’m trying to teach him that if any windows pop up, to click the red “x” and close them right away. We’re working on the always ask an adult before you click on something rule, but he hasn’t quite gotten that one yet.
I use multiple email addresses to help filter my private vs public emails.
I’ve made checking ALL of my credit and banking accounts part of my daily routine. There have been times when I’ve caught stuff before it had a chance to post!
Spokeo is a great site that shows all sorts of pubic info about us. I make sure that I am “private” on there, and also keep all of my info on Facebook as private as possible. This is an ongoing process, since FB is always changing things!
I keep my facebook photos and information locked to “friends only” and I often unfriend or decline friend requests to keep it more personal. It creeps me out that a stranger who is a friend of a friend of a friend could see my photos.
I use google, snopes and Symantec’s database to check on things I’m suspicious of.
Unless I’m shopping or researching, I use inPrivate browsing. I also change my passwords regularly.
The Google search is a great idea. I discovered several of my relatives had their full name, birthdate, and social security numbers readily available on a geneology website just recently!!! I also recommend really reading the fine print for any websites, newsletters, contests, ect, one signs up for – I’ve had my information passed along on more than one occasion, receiving both phone calls and post.
megancrose at gmail dot com
I have a separate email address for all my online shopping, commenting, etc. My ‘real’ email I only use for my personal emails. Don’t know how much this helps but it does keep my email box clean!
I use LastPass to generate and keep track of unique and secure passwords for ever website I log into that contains sensitive information. It’s so convenient because I don’t have to remember so many different, complex passwords!
If inputting any sort of payment information or other secure info, I always make sure the URL beings with https, not http.
I always watch the URL bar when clicking on a link from email that seems legit, but might not be– despite what the page looks like, you can tell a lot from what the actual URL is, and if it’s fake, it’s never what was listed in the email.
I use a separate mailbox address instead of my home address for anything that I do online.
We use one credit card for purchases over the Internet only and it’s one that is NOT linked to our bank account. This way we are able to see immediately if there was an unauthorized charge etc. plus the credit card companies are really good about catching strange purchases on your card and give you a call.
I re-check my FB settings every month and my husband runs software every month to check for bugs.
Never open e-mails when you do not know who they are from.
Definitely change your passwords periodically.
I use numbers for letters in my passwords when possible. For example. A=4 and S=5.
Make sure to be on a secure site when spending your money on line look for an “s” after the http in the begging ofthe wedsite address. Example: https
we have our own personal hotspot (mingo wireless) that we take with us on the go, so we don’t have to use free wifi and compromise our security.
Our family computer is in a spot where I can see the screen so that I can see what my boys are getting into.
I always type in and/or search websites independently. I don’t rely on “clickable” links to get to the pages I’m interested in. I read once that scammers can set-up look-a-like sites to fraud customers into revealing their password, login or other personal information.
I taught my children to never enter any of their real information into a computer. That includes school, sports teams and anything that could be used as identity markers such as player #’s/
Always log out of any page.
i carefully select which companies i will give my email address to, and which blogs i will post on- of course cool mom picks is allowed! it is scary what is available on the web, even when you think you are being careful! what what you put out there, and careful posting on FB anything you don’t want someone to find and use to harm you.
Of course I keep the list of accts and passwords at home but I also try and go in at least every six months and change the important ones (financial, etc.) I use the daylight saving times change as my prompt.
When creating new passwords, consider making up your own acronym out of a sentence that’s meaningful to you. Plus, add punctuation. So, for example, your password might be CMPisB! (Cool Mom Picks is the Best!).
I’ve stopped sharing a lot of info and pics on facebook. I never post status about trips until after we’re back if @ all. I’m also more aware of the backgrounds of the pics I post online. Yes Grandma may notice the sweet little child’s face but the person browsing someone else’s facebook may be too concerned with “taking” in the big screen or jewelry box off to the side. Too many people have access to that info. We are responsible for what we put out there. Be AWARE people!
I use different passwords for all of the different sites and retailers that I use.
Change your passwords frequently and set up a separate e-mail for “junk” mail.
I use a good all around virus/anti-malware software, Vipre, that is not expensive but is a great protection!
Everytime I pay w. cc on a website, i remove my account info right afterwards
We’ve started using 1password. It’s really nice, because it makes it super easy to have really great passwords for every site you might ever enter sensitive info, without having to somehow remember all those crazy passwords!
I also am big on those more secure facebook settings, and have different friends lists so that only my actual friends (rather than all those randoms from high school!) can look at my pictures and read any personal info.
I enjoy shopping on Ebay and other deal sites, but am often concerned about the privacy of my bank information. I am thrilled that most legit sites will accept Paypal as a legitimate form of payment, which keeps all of my info safe and secure.
I have my Facebook profile set so it won’t come up in a Google search. And I don’t accept invitations for things like Lil’ Green Patch and other Facebook games/apps that my friends want me to play.
Before I enter in personal info or payment info to a site I always check the URL to make sure that it is a secure page (https, SSL, etc).
Always learn more about the party you are buying from online before making giving personnel info.
use paypal not a credit or debit card
I always make sure the web address says https at the top if I am going to transmit credit card or other sensitive information over the web. If not, I find what I need on another site that is secure.
My husband and I have a credit card account that we use only for all of our purchases on the Internet. That way it is easy to scan each month’s list of charges to check for and fraudulent activity, and if we do have to cancel the card it won’t affect automatic bill payments that we have set up using another account. We researched and found one with the best rules regarding fraud.
I always use my paypal credit card to buy things with. I am protected better that way..
itsjustme62613 at gmail.com
I pay bills online but use a credit card instead of my bank account info. Also only do this from home.
I have my FB privacy settings at their most restrictive, and even then I don’t post pictures that I wouldn’t want a future employer (or my children’s future employers) to see. Our family photos are on our own site, behind a password.
Minimize the number of sites you are subscribed to and provide info to. I also try to use paypal as often as possible.
I never check the “remember this credit card” box on websites anymore so that my credit card information isn’t as easily available to hackers.
I’m very select when I make purchases on the internet. I make sure to use a credit card, that we only have a minimal credit line on and I check that credit card for charges regulary. I also make sure that the sites I order from are locked sites.
Thanks so much.
rickpeggysmith(at)aol(dot)com
Use Paypal instead of entering in credit card info.
It said my previous entry failed…darnit! I keep 2 separate facebook accounts – one for entering contests and giveaways, one for close friends and family. I frequently check the privacy settings for the personal account – and I will be checking my daughter’s as she gets older, too! She is only 3 right now, so I have a few years to worry about it.
safeeyes software – good reviews
being a diligent parent – no cell phone in rooms for night texting/surfing
tvollowitz at aol dot com
I try to use my Facebook groups to make sure that only the people I want to see my son’s pictures do.
Set up a credit card or bank account with limited funds that is only used for internet transactions and is not linked to your regular banking information.
I have a separate email account that I use for plugging in to any site online. It helps keep my spam tied to a separate account & my personal account….personal.
all of these comments are really great – and helpful! i’ve already learned so much just skimming them. my suggestion is not that creative – i haven’t posted very much info about my kids online, other than emailing their pics from time to time, or uploading them to a password protected sharing site (me.com).
It looks like even they can’t keep up to date, but I do like the facebook scanner at https://www.reclaimprivacy.org/ .
Have personal home network secured with a really long, *random* password. My dad learned this the hard way when someone hacked his password (his occupation). Changing it once in a while doesn’t hurt either.
If you use twitter on your smart phones, be sure to pay attention to the settings when setting it up. I found out my location was being broadcasted with every tweet.
Thanks for the opportunity to win!!! I’ve been so wanting an iPad!!!
My kids are so young at this point its hard to have to think about the Internet as they grow older… but already the 3 1/2 year old can navigate my iPhone to any game she wants so its going to be real quick.
Recently another mom told me she has a rule – in exchange for paying for the kid’s cell phone (smart phone) – she can read all the texts/emails whenever she wants.
Another dad told me that all email his daughter receives is cc’d to his wife. (Through Mobile Me)
Also have heard of new service.. myI … that uses apps to control the Internet in your house. So you can have wifi automatically turn off at a certain time.
Not looking forward to dealing with all this when my kids grow up. Next year. Yikes!
Setting all my facebook settings to only friends has been a help.
When not paying through Paypal, I use a credit card versus a debit card. If there’s an issue with the vendor, it’s a lot easier to dispute the charges and change the account number than if you’d used your debit card.
My tip is to ‘regularly’ change your user passwords!
Also, when creating new passwords, make them as ‘unique’ as possible; perhaps using one of your ‘favorite phrases’, instead of using just numbers and letters!
Thanks for the great giveaway offering!
I would love to WIN this 16GB iPad 2!
Good Luck to All!
I learned the hard way by having email & eBay accounts hacked to make your passwords as strong as possible – use a combo of upper/lowercase letters, numbers, punctuation.
Do not store credit card numbers on your computer.
Be intentional about the pictures that are put online. It’s easy to get carried away with putting up cute pictures of my son, but it’s easy to forget that all kinds of information is being put up about our family with each picture.
Thanks!!
I like to use the pay as you go credit cards on online purchases.
ftc.gov has lots of good tips.
I like to use PayPal when shopping online. I appreciate that I don’t have to enter my information at all the different sites I might buy from.
I admit I just don’t know enough about keeping my info safe. I do try to change out my passwords often, and don’t use the same password for everything (which is very hard when I am so tired and have no memory.)
Steph
I always have my spam guard and anti virus on whenever I go online because I don’t want any viruses to get on my computer.
When I do any banking online I make sure the site is safe by checking the secure link at the bottom of my page.
I go to spokeo and type in either my name or email address and if anything shows up with my personal information, I contact the company to take it straight off!
When I purchase things online through ebay I go through paypal and it makes my transactions secure.
We keep the kids’ computer in the family room.
I am ensuring my children’s personal privacy by not allowing them to use the computer. I am proud that my 5 year old doesn’t know what the internet is.
I make sure that my settings for facebook, etc are as strong as they can be.
iPad 2 Please pick me!!!!!
I use paypal as much as possible and never save credit cards on shopping sites.
I use one email address just for stuff that could create junk mail or for times I don’t want to risk spam….
I use complex passwords with letters numbers & symbols…
I keep our wireless internet secure…
I keep computer privacy settlings at medium
Wooo hoo ipad 2
I use PayPal whenever possible to pay for purchases online because credit card information is never shared.
kport207 at gmail dot com
Think twice before entering the same password for banking or credit cards anywhere else. Create unique passwords.
ky2here at msn dot com
As a victim of identity theft, I recommend using one computer for banking and another one for everything else. That way you never have to worry about phishing email getting your banking info.
I keep my security settings at the highest level and keep our computers in common areas of the house so that our kids are in full view when on the computer.
Never give too much personal info away online. There may be more eyes watching than you think!
I dont pay bills online with bank info.
I limit who can see my pictures, status updates etc. And have a blog for more intimate/private stuff that’s invite only!
I always log off of sites when I’m done. Even fb. I left that logged on once and got hacked. I can only imagine what would happen if I left something more important logged on.
Our wireless router is not only password protected but it is “hidden” so it doesn’t even show up as being an available network. No one can use our wireless without our knowledge. We have to allow the device in order for it to connect. Once we have done that though, it is all set.
I have seperate passwords for online banking, kids passwords, school passwords and work passwords.
Scott Martin
spmartin122@gmail.com
Be careful where you post your pictures. A friend of mine had some crazy man download the pictures of her daughter from her public facebook page (she’s a photographer) and create a facebook page with her daughter’s name using those photos. Freaky!
Facebook did work with her and was very responsive to shut the page down.
Never use the same passwords on your accounts. I keep an address book to write them all down in.
I check history frequently. Kids don’t usually think to empty that.
I don’t keep any of my credit card numbers on file at any site. Hackers are everywhere!
The biggest threat kids will face online will be their peers — make sure to check in on your kids to know whether or not they are being bullied, or bullying, as that is a much greater risk than a sexual predator.
I try to use paypal as much as i can.
I make sure to keep my virus software up to date. Doing that has definitely helped me catch some doozies that could have done major damage to my system and files.
I never put pictures of my kids on public forums or websites, only on my privacy protected facebook. There are a lot of people out there who will take your kid’s pictures and call them their own (or do worse things with them!).
I’ve been using Zoobuh for my daughter’s email. I am happy to have found a service that allows me to closely monitor and control her email access.
I use an ad blocker to keep innocent eyes away from all the popup garbage.
Dove056 at aol dot com
Check that websites start with https. It is secure then.
As a elem. tech teacher, I create shortcuts on the student server to safe internet sites like pbskids and skillbuilder.com As a mom you can create a folder on your home computer for the shortcuts.
BTW, thanks for the chance to win an ipad! My dream tech tool! I want to use the chore app you posted earlier!
I change my passwords frequently and always make sure they are strong (numbers, symbols, letters- uppercase and lowercase).
I delete cookies and history every week, and I check both to keep an eye on my teenage boys…gotta keep them safe!
I try to change my password often, and only shop on sites I trust.
I have a portable hotspot so I never have to use public wifi. I also clear my cookies after every browsing session. I believe I use a setting on Firefox that does
It automatically for me upon exiting the program.
Change passwords often. Even rotating between 5 or 10 similar passwords can be effective!!
I don’t let my kids download music or apps on their iPods without me approving it. They don’t know the password so I have to put it in for them.
I use paypal for online purchases whenever possible to avoid sharing my bank or credit card information.
When keeping my information secure I always read and subscribe to tech notes, updates on privacy settings and do research on rumored settings changes. Always googling my self monthly.
i don’t share anything online that i don’t want everyone and anyone to know. and i only use our online banking and sites like that at home.
Google alerts. Also, I like to have an email address with my real name; but I don’t want to hand that out when I’m making a Craigs list or Freecycle request, so I have a second email address that gets forwarded to my regular account.
I am really consistent with my online banking and purchasing. I use the same card for everything so I don’t lose track of what’s going on.
This is an oldie but a goodie – don’t click on ebay or paypal (or bank) links in emails when they’re telling you something is wrong with your account. ALWAYS enter the link by hand, otherwise you’re bound to get sent to a phishing website. I can’t tell you how many times my mom’s ebay account has been “hacked” and I KNOW it’s because she falls for those emails.
Keep your anti virus software up to date. It will protect you against the latest attacks.
I have Google Alerts set up on my name, my husband’s name, and my daughter’s name (in addition to other things of interest). It’s an easy and automatic way to be alerted to ALL kinds of things!
I use a fake name on facebook: Mack Daniels. As if that’s a real person.
I have lots of suggestions! I opt out of automatic location tagging on my smartphone. I stopped using Foursquare and other location-based apps when I’m with my children. I remove landmarks from my blog photos- even the less obvious ones like trees. I rarely share photos on Flickr.
I have email alerts set up through my bank and credit card company–anytime a purchase over $75 is made, I receive an email. Keeps me in check with my family’s purchases AND alerts me if someone steals my card.
I have a couple friends who work in IT so I pick their brains about what the best way to protect my computer is. It’s a great chance to catch up with good friends and learn something at the same time!
iAwesome! We have WiFi in our house, and it’s password protected.
Use a nickname on Facebook. That way, you can pick and choose who you want to befriend and who you want to know you’re on FB.
Also, be vigilant as to who tags you in photos. You can untag yourself.
Be careful not to let details about your daily routine seep into your Twitter and Facebook statuses…
Use paypal, secure wifi, and an obscure email address for transactions. And never check the “remember personal info?” box. 🙂
Great tips posted. My FB account was hacked, and it was pretty scary. Have different passwords for FB and email address associated with FB.
I teach my 5 year old that Facebook, emailing & texting are ways to communicate with people. Developmentally he can’t really grasp that there’s a conversation going on so I read him some replies I get so he has a clearer sense that there’s another person involved in social media & electronic communication.
Never check remember me as I had my computer
Stolen and all my bank and credit cards were then accessed.
Scary!!
I regular check and change all the passwords for each member in the house. I alone am administrator for all accounts. Each person is notified of changes. This helps me to be able to monitor the children’s accounts and to keep control over who has access to our information.
Hope this helps someone! Plus I found some great tips by reading through these comments.
I recently learned a big no-no when my boyfriend’s gmail account was hacked and the hackers got into his credit cards and bank accounts since the idiot(I say lovingly)had all account information saved in gmail notes since he can’t remember numbers to save his life. The lesson? Info saved on the internet isn’t safe. Don’t do it. 😉
We check our bank accounts frequently to keep an eye out for fraudulent charges. Oftentimes crooks will charge a tiny amount to test if the account is valid, and then make bigger charges once the first one goes through.
Consider using roboform or another program that generates really difficult passwords and saves the passwords for you! topgun34er(at)hotmail(dot)com
Biggest safety feature I use: simply never letting a windows computer into my house. (not just shameful brown-nosing for the ipad, i promise!) Windows, and internet explorer in particular, is a hacker’s playground. Use a mac if you have one, and download firefox or chrome to your windows computer for extra protection.
make sure to password your wifi
I love using paypal!
I change up my passwords frequently — I keep a list of them in hard copy (several lists, actually) to keep track.
Truly, it was when I read that you should use a secure line when possible when you are on facebook.
Invest in a good antivirus program and KEEP IT UPDATED.
Tip: check your credit card statements- we were hacked and apparently signed up for a porno site featuring homeless people. And it took a long time before I queried the innoculous-looking charge on our credit card statement. NOT good.
Don’t post pics of the kids online. Also, don’t fill out quizzes and tests on facebook. Have you noticed how they always ask questions that end up getting used as security questions when you are setting up bank accounts, etc. online?!
i recently read a great article on my local news app about privacy settings on facebook. I immediately checked it out and changed a few more things to be a lot more secure.
I really like your cookies tip, too. I’m going to look into that as well. Thanks for the opportunity!
Cnet has some really valuable videos on security using public wifi spots
Karen
akjetmom@gci.net
Common sense, really, if it doesn’t feel right or seems too good to be true avoid at all costs. Works in everyday life on for internetvlife too!
I am pretty careful re: location based social media.. I also check my FB settings often.
I also have a ton of email addresses, only close friends and family are given my personal one, and I use different ones for different online activities (shopping, banking, etc).
We share two computers, set up in a public area of our home, for the family. My tip is, no computers in the kids’ rooms – so they can’t do anything online they won’t do in front of their whole family. Cuts down on the ‘Chat Roulette’ experimentation!
I suggest you check your phone settings. My husband showed me today a feature I was totally unaware of. My iPhone has a “location services” setting which allows your phone to pin point where you are at any exact moment. It’s typically used with apps that search for local restaurants, parks, malls, etc. Well, if you have it “on” for your iPhone camera and you upload a photo to a website or social networking site, any computer savvy person can find out when you took the picture and exactly where it was taken. They can pin point exactly where you are! Scary huh? So my suggestion is to turn the location services to “off” for your camera on your iPhones!
Checking my bank accounts online daily. Using PayPal when I can. Protecting our wireless network at home with a password. And wow, reading the comments left here has been wonderfully informative!
I use a fake birthdate online, whenever I have to register for something, and on Facebook and other social apps – many financial accounts rely on client birthdates as a way of verifying information, and this way, I am not broadcasting that info. Plus, I ‘accidentally’ shaved 6 years off of my age with my new birth date, so really – a win-win situation!
I like to use Google checkout or PayPal whenever possible so I don’t have my info all over the place.
I also like to use my bank for all online payments instead of each one separately threw it’s own site.
CNET.com has been a great resource for doublechecking facts, options, and trusted sites. Also, excellent reviews and ideas for staying safe online.
I avoid giving too much personal information away on Facebook, e.g., I don’t give my current location, I only upload older photos or far away shots of my daughter.
Also, I try to be very careful about the usernames I select for websites, blogs and forums that I visit. I’m trying to remain somewhat anonymous in this increasingly small digital world.
My wifi is password protected and I delete cookies and temprary files at least twice a week
Use caps symbols and numbers for your passwords
I don’t keep my credit cards on file at any sites and just retype each time I purchase!!!
Make sure you check privacy settings on Facebook a few times a month to make sure nothing changes. Also I like to use different email addresses to separate personal and commercial emails.
For the kids, we set a login just for them that’s only able to access certain sites (they’re little now, so places like pbs.org, etc.). That way, if we step out, we know they’re not accidentally “wandering” where they shouldn’t.
I use a separate email address for all online shopping, memberships, etc. than I do for all personal email. I also use lots of weird characters in my passwords. And I invested in some really good anti-virus software and ask my friends in IT to keep me posted regularly.
I try to use only one credit card so that I’m not putting all of them at risk with the info out there.
I always look for the little “lock” at the bottom of the screen or the “https” in the web address to make sure that the site I’m on in secure.
Using unique passwords for each site I use. It may be ‘easier’ to have one password for everything, but it’s also much riskier.
I always ensure that I am using a secure site (https) when I am making any purchases online.
I use Paypal on all purchases that have it as a payment option. It limits my having to enter all of my credit card info on many different sites as well as limiting using passwords that I may forget or that may make it easier for people to figure out my passwords for different accounts.
keep the internet out in the open- none in the kids or your room where everyone can see what is going on
Avoid accessing personal or private information such as e-mail on a public computer (i.e. work, school, library, etc.) because there is no guarantee that this information is not tracked, and you’re probably not on a secure connection.
Periodically dump that cache & history. And I don’t announce my whereabouts on social networking sites as I don’t want folks watching my moves or loading up my house. Yikes!
Best tip yet? Reading all these comments for both a humbling reminder of the need for security and motivation to make a few adjustments!
iPad2? Yes, please!
I dont share where im going just where i have been. It’s stupid to share youll be gone for two weeks on vacation. You never know who’s reading.
Not only using unique passwords, but making my passwords different and not all the same has worked for me. That way if someone gets my email password they can’t also access my bank/fb/etc.
when making purchases online, i use the specially generated one-time use credit card number
Everyone has given such great tips already!!! My only addition is that I only let my little one play games on kids sites that don’t let you visit any other urls. And on my phone any app she plays with also has a child lock so she can’t do anything but play the game.
A high school vice principal, I am developing questions teens can ask themselves before pushing “send”: Am I publicly expressing a feeling better conveyed privately?
I’ve made a rule that I won’t say anything about my kids online that I wouldn’t say out loud to a friend when they’re sitting next to me.
Make sure site is secured (https) when putting in financial info And change important passwords often.
The Kids’ PC from Toshiba- that has kidzui on it! Kidzui just seems great! (My kids are still just a little too little to have their own computer just yet, but almost!)
Make sure to have unique passwords for all your accounts. No recycling the passwords. The only time recycling is bad.
Unfortunately, we’re trying to get my mom out of a major scam right now, so I know more than I ever thought I would. The IC3 website (Internet Crime Complaint Center – IC3.gov) has great links to help identify common fraud schemes and how to protect yourself and your loved ones! Please be safe out there and thanks for the contest!
I have a credit card where I can create a Virtual Account Number that can only be used one time. I don’t worry about having my credit card stolen online anymore.
I use norton websafe that checks the pages and if it’s not safe (red flash) I will not go to that site. It prevents you to go.
I recommend intermittently clearing your history so you don’t leave a clear path to all your favorite websites, especially if you on-line shop a lot.
I rarely allow my kids online … and only for a specific reason and when I’m in the same room.
I’m so diligent about never using my kids’ actual names online that some of my Facebook friends don’t know what their names actually are! I have deleted comments in which people have used their names and I don’t post pictures if their name is in the picture (like on a piece of artwork they did in school.) They’re going to have enough privacy concerns when they’re older, so all the better if I can keep their identities off the Internet as long as possible…
I use my ISP provider email only for family, friends and financial matters like banks and credit card accounts. It is more heavily secured. I use online type email accounts for other things like forums and gaming sites.
dchrisg3 @ gmail . com
I have a standard password for my blog stuff that is 100% removed from my personal banking/finance passwords.
Just in case.
Overwrite the hard drive of any old computer you are
donating or recycling and never store credit card or social security numbers on mobile devices.
I change my passwords on a regular basis.
I password protect our Internet at home. And secured our network. This has helped us minimize shady activity. Keeping my fingers X’ed for the ipad 🙂
I use an automated form filler so I’m not keying in my user name and password each time I access a site. The form filler will also generate a unique password for me that will also help protect my information.
I clear out all mycookies and cash regularly and I have a setting on facebook enablednthat I have to type in the name of the device I’m logging onto facebook with that way I know it’s only me accessing it.
Don’t save account information on websites. As nice and easy as it is, even safe sites can get hacked.
I get a lot of spam emails and I consider several things before even opening:
1.Have I contacted this person first?
2.Does it seem odd?
3.If it is a real person or company you can visit or call them directly to find out what the issue is without opening that email.
I always look for the padlock, to make sure a site is secure, when shopping online.
Never click on links in emails to access your bank or credit card accounts. These are almost always phishing emails.
I recommend talking to kids early and often about Internet safety! Even my 6 year old knows the basics. For older kids, I think it’s reasonable to ask for log in info and access to profiles on FB etc.
I use paypal whenever possible and always make sure the site is secure (https) whenever I am entering payment information.
When buying anything online, I try and use paypal if available–I was burned once on Ebay using my credit card–never again.
unique passwords! had 2 learn that 1 the hard way!
Making sure your software is up to date is a good way to protect from viruses.
I customize my Facebook privacy settings based on how I know people, and use two separate email accounts: one for people I actually know and one for anything done online. Lots of great ideas here!
my password is very unique
I use paypal whenever possible.
I always check to see if the website address begins with http or https. I f there is an s at the end then it is a secure sight. No s not secure.
I use Paypal whenever possible to help protect my credit/debit card info and I only pay bills online when at home.
I use paypal as much as possible and end up reading privacy tips for Facebook from friends when they update them in their status!
I try to stay up to date with popular websites and we’ll keep the kids’ computer in a public area.
I have a password on my home wifi, and a password protected guest account as well
Hello, for internet saftey and privacy when a blog such as this wants my email address in the comment, I always format with an (at) and a (dot) instead of writing the authentic address in case there is a phishing bot somewhere. Thanks for a great giveaway!
I always check the url before paying for anything online – make sure of the lock and only use trusted websites
What are the “security” questions” you get asked for internet banking and bill pay, in case you forget your password? Usually things like “Street you were born on” “Name of family pet”. The same questions get asked during those “How Much Do You Really Know Me” games played through e-mail forwards and Facebook Notes. When hacked, the identity thief is only a step away from gaining access to your financial information!
I have 2, actually. 1: Use a credit card or paypal when buying online instead of a debit card. Credit cards usually have fraud protection whereas debit card do not. 2: Always be wary when something has a link attached that you have to click on. Even if it comes from a trusted source. If you have any doubt, don’t click on it. You can always ask the person before checking out what they sent and it will save you from phishing scams and viruses.
I use a “fake” email account for non-essential online transactions. Thus, if that one is hacked. I do not need to be as concerned about personal information being compromised.
topgun34er(at)hotmail(dot)com
i make sure my child is in the room with me when hes on the internet.
I love Pay Pal. If a site doesn’t offer it as a payment method I don’t buy from them online.
Leave your birthday off of facebook and other public places! It might be fun to get all those happy birthday messages, but you are also giving away a key bit of information about yourself to pretty much everyone.
frequently change your passwords!!
I like using Avast security and Adaware for malware. thank you!
We have one credit card that we use for online payments and nothing else. It’s also the card Paypal is linked to. If it’s ever compromised, our checking account is safe.
My debit card number was skimmed at an ATM once and before we discovered how it happened, the bank suggested that it could have been from using it online. Nope, not possible. It’s a good way to keep track of things.
fav tip: use decent passwords. As much as that’s an old one, people still don’t make decent passwords.
Check your bank accounts daily!
I block certain sites so my kids can’t go there.I also keep a watch on what they are doing when they are online.
Thanks for the giveaway:)
Set all privacy settings to “friends only” on facebook. I never take those surveys or play those games either that can take all your personal information.
I use a password that’s somewhat complex; meaningful to me, but no one else.
We keep our Picasa albums private so you have to have a link to that specific album. Now only the family and friends we send it to can see our munchkins.
Zab Browser is a great browser you can install on your computer so your young child cannot nagigate to inappropriate websites.
mscoffee77(AT)juno(DOT)com
Password protect your home WiFi! Can’t believe how many open networks I see when I log on!
While I think it’s convenient and easier I try not limit the place I “save” my password and log in information. This can help prevent chances of my private data and info being accessed.
From time to time, check on the privacy settings on Facebook. Always a good tip.
Keeping my son’s computer where I can see what he’s doing takes a lot off my mind, too. Also, I make sure he understands about internet safety regarding instant messages, etc.
lots of good tips!! My advise is to keep reading. There’s always something new out there… be aware.
Have a good firewall and virus protection software. There are some free options that are great!
I saw some tips about keeping one password so you can remember. I have a set of passwords I use. one for my very sensitive data (banking, etc) one for mid-tier data, and one used for the 3000 websites I’m enrolled in.
ipad yay!
I switched mine (and my husband’s) Facebook accounts over to the new https option. If my kids were on FB, I would probably monitor their security settings for them, because there is too much ‘drift’ in their policies, and I doubt many kids know about the https option.
I use my nickname on everything instead of my actual name.
I have sets of ‘fake’ answers to the password-prompt questions that sites require, because it takes very little to reset someone’s password. Sometimes all it takes is knowing where they went on a honeymoon, or their dog’s name! So when I set a password for something, I also set fake password prompts. Nobody needs to know my mother’s real maiden name!
I never use my debit card online or anywhere where it might be out of my sight
Use capital letters and numbers when creating a password to make them harder to guess.
I teach Digital Safety to my 7th graders in computer class. You’d be frightened at how little they are aware and how many of them have Facebook accounts (even though legally they aren’t supposed to have one until 13!) There are a lot of great resources to use with your kids like netsmartz.org or Common Sense Media. I think the most important thing is to keep the family “computer” (be it a laptop, iPad, desktop) somewhere public where you can monitor what your kids are using, and TALK TO YOUR KIDS about what is and isn’t appropriate. Don’t use the tech as a babysitter, but as a tool to let them interact.
Never have my browsers remember usernames and passwords for banking sites or paypal.
We have our WiFi password protected.
Before sending or forwarding any emails, I check snopes.com. Also, I have a great anti-spyware program on my computer.
Change your passwords every other month
A simple tip, but one I know a lot people don’t follow: do not open attachments in chain emails! I know people who not only open every single attachment or click on every link, but they also forward them along, too. Just because the email was sent to you by someone you know, doesn’t mean it is safe to open!
Make sure any site you provide your credit card is secure (look for lock on your bowser screen).
Set your Facebook setting to view on secure site
Use a one time virtual credit card number when shopping online.
I am always deleting cookies, browsing and tracking info. I never use public wifi to purchase anything or access my accounts.
I do check my Facebook settings every so often – thankfully, I don’t usually find anything, but I have been surprised a couple of times.
never click on a link in an email. Go directly to the site, and put in your info.
itsjustme62613 at gmail.com
The best way to check your Facebook settings is to log out of Facebook, and then go to your profile. That way you can see what is available on your profile to people who aren’t your friend.
Use a password phrase instead of a real word. Much harder for an identity theif to crack.
we password protect our wifi at home
I use complicated passwords and Paypal!
Since our kids are skill young, we make sure they know that an adult has to be present to play on the computer.
I stopped posting information about our upcoming trips on Facebook. Before, I would do a countdown and talk about how excited I was. Now, I post about how great the trip was, after the fact.
(*crossing fingers for the iPad*)
One tip that has helped me greatly is to not click on links in an an email. It’s better to type in the website and go from there.
don’t click on unknown links in email
ardy22 at earthlink dot net
I use paypal instead of my debit card online. I also don’t have a cc so that nothing to get compromised there.
I set my privacy settings high on Facebook so that only my friends can see my pictures that I post of my children.
I only have one card I use online. Its a credit card and not a debit card or linked to any bank account.
I also have an email account that is solely used for online purchases, never personal correspondence. That way, I never miss an important email!
While on Facebook, look at your URL address; if you see http: instead of https: then you don’t have a secure session and can be hacked. Go to Account|Account Settings|Account Security and click Change. Check at least the first setting. Click on “Browse Facebook on a secure connection (https) whenever possible.” FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
I know it’s all the rage, but I refuse to “check in” anywhere on Twitter or Facebook. I do not like anyone having that much access to my whereabouts.
Resist using features like four squared that broadcast your location to all!
Change passwords regularly and don’t pick obvious ones like birthdays!
def. wifi password protected,only browse secure website and dont let computer remember passwords.
use the maximum number of characters allowed for a password. the longer the password, the harder it is to try and hack it!
do not email sensitive information. this is not a secure way of transferring visa numbers, etc.
1) Password access on all devices – phone, iPad, laptop, etc.
2) If you do any kind of confidential work or have confidential client information on your laptop, invest in laptop encryption software so that if it is lost or stolen, you haven’t also compromised all that information.
I listen to Cnet Buzz out Loud for the low down on the most recent privacy changes on Facebook and any cyber threats going around.
Definitely password-protect your home
Wifi, and don’t open ANY attachments unless you’re 1000% sure of exactly what they are.
My new rule is: Do Not Share Personal Info on Media Sites (facebook, twitter, blogs, discussion forums, etc.)
This includes not posting your child’s real name.
Use different passwords for financial sites than your shopping/fun sites.
Turn on cookie notices in your Web browser, and/or use cookie management software. Alsi I use Paypal 🙂
Don’t use any identifing info in screen names. Ie: hsvcharger99. Someone can figure out that is a team name & plater#.
Would it be tacky to say that I follow Cool Mom Tech and keep apprised of the latest and greatest? Also, approach every request for information online as I would in person, do I really trust this person/company with this information?
We use websites that do a lot of business online and limit where our info is stored.
I only use my home computer for bank transactions and making online payments. It is safer than a mobile phone device because mobile phones can be hacked on more levels than your computer.
The computer is in the kitchen, so I always know what my kids are doing online. And they know never to fill in any forms themselves.
And I’ve also learned by screwing up: Our credit card was stolen after I made a purchase using public wifi just last week. What on earth was I thinking?
One way fraudsters can use to access your personal information is through malware that might infect your computer. To prevent such infections, it’s ‘very important’ to keep your operating system and web browser up-to-date! It’s also important for you to update and run your anti-virus soft-ware on a regular basis!
I found very helpful security information over at http://www.lifehacker.com
They had a breach of security and devoted several posts about the best of the best.
Thank you and have a great day!
I never give information that is optional. Also, when you are at stores shopping in real life, you do not need to give them your phone number, zip code, or email, no matter what they tell you. Just say no!
I use Lifelock and it monitors my credit and sends me email updates about any changes to my credit (if someone tries to open a credit card etc).
Paypal is awesome for safer online purchases. Plus, it keeps my spending in check :o)
Have a strong password.
I work for a bank and I use our password policy for my own passwords. Unique, not found in a dictionary and a combo on letters, symbols and numbers. And I change them every 90 days
I don’t put letters in my mailbox. I bring them to work to be picked up to be more secure. I do a lot of online transactions and try to use sites that are secure.
Avoid those “Get to Know You” memes that ask the same types of questions as password-unlocking security questions on websites!
I learned to have a good virus protection and keep only friends on places like facebook.
Above all else, use common sense. Just because the internet is cool and useful doesn’t mean you should disengage your brain.
never post your social security number online
I change passwords frequently on my heavily loaded with info sites
Microsoft.com has some great advice for privacy and security.
Also, we tell our kids that any device that we give them is a family device set aside for their use. As long as it is a family device, we have the right to check it at any time and we will pay for its use. It’s a privilege, not a right.
We also make sure that our network is secure and current with anti-virus software.
I routinely change my passwords to things not every crazy ex boyfriend knows about.
I try to use paypal where ever I can!
I always use passwords containing at least one capital letter and 2 numbers.
Change your passwords frequently and use “stong” passwords (ie letters and digits)
I don’t put personal information on facebook like going out of town or anything because you never know who may want to do you harm.
As a teacher, my advice is to preview websites before your child does any “research” for school projects or papers. I’ve seen some unbelievable things pop up in the school library and computer lab just from 2nd graders searching “white house” or “mammals.” Find the “kid-friendly” search engines and use those instead of the big name ones!
I am always on my go and use my iphone often to shop online, pay bills, facebook…but I never use wi-fi. I always use my 3g.
Always read a websites policy before giving out any information. Also make sure the website is secure.
Dove056 at aol dot com
Don’t let anyone use your smart phone cause they might get into your personal accounts and info.
log off of all sites once done
Try to remember to check my credit each year to make sure no strange activity is in there!
Whenever I go to social websites, I always set my account to private so nobody besides my friends can see my information.
Never post personal information online on blogs.
I do not like to use my cel phone as a contact number online. Just use my landline phone for more privacy.
Use different passwords!
So many people leave their home wifi unprotected! Use a password folks!!
I keep up to date on privacy issues by constantly Googling and reading. #1 issue: If you wouldn’t tell a stranger on the street your child’s name and where you live, then you need to have due diligence on protecting that same info online. Watch your settings – including photos. My Flick account is set to private, my FB photos are set to private and I password protect elsewhere.
We keep out computer right in the living room. That way everyone knows what each other is looking at. Keeps us all involved.
Password protect your home network.
I try not to use the same passwords for everything. I also try to change them every once in awhile
I make sure to change my passwords often.
Change passwords often. Use a different email account for financial transactions than you do for anything else. Don’t use obvious passwords like your child’s name, your birthdate, etc.
Always, ALWAYS assume anything you do online could be seen by anyone, including criminals. Keep that thought when you’re using facebook, blogging, chatting or using any messenger-type service, especially. People let slip information about their neighborhood, their kid’s schools and after-school activities, where they bank, etc. All within conversations they have with others online.
I use separate email addresses to filter my mail and I only post pictures of my kids on my personal Facebook profile–not on my blog or blog’s ‘like’ page!
I really don’t have an issue with internet privacy. I enter alot of sweepstakes and (knock on wood) haven’t had any issues. My husband also keeps my security programs well updated.
I am vigilant about checking my Facebook privacy settings!
I always pay with Paypal when available. I also pay with a credit card that will reimburse me in case of identity theft. I always make sure that I am purchasing from a secure site.
I always keep the computer in the kitchen where I can see what my kids are doing online and the kids use KIDZUI to play games on the web that way all the games and videos are kid appropriate. I never let them on YouTube unless closely supervised.
We only use a CC for online shopping, in case the information is stolen it’s not connected directly to our bank account.
Log off of all sites once done
nickieisis3atgmaildotcom
All computer use must happen in the main living area of the house. I also removed You Tube and other apps from my sons Itouch to prevent and accidental clicks.
I only use my Amex for online purchases and a seperate email address(not associated with my Internet carrier ie.hotmail,gmail,yahoo) for all online registrations.
I pay most of my bills online. After entering a payment and logging out, I always close the brower and open a new one before moving on to the next website. I also never save any of my passwords in my autofill program
My kids are still young but I think modeling is key so I keep our internet profiles anonymous or with fake names and hometowns and set the privacy settings the way we like them…hopefully this mindset of knowing just bc it’s just a screen doesn’t mean you’re safe wears off on them!
I make it a point to talk to my kids about news stories pop up about cyber bullying, sexting and other tech issues that can affect tweens and teens. My oldest is in middle school and I want my kids to be tech savvy yet street smart about the dangers and pitfalls of technology.
I like to make up a fake name that is similar to my real name. I totally confuses my facebook friends!
Dont open suspect emails
We only allow the computer in the family room, so that we know what is going on.
Keep the computer in the main family area, not bedrooms. Kids know mom is around!
don’t use the same password, and change them every so often, especially if you think your security might be compromised.
I agree with many of the other comments that Facebook privacy settings (set them–do it!!) are amazing. I also tend to use Firefox for my primary web-browser and it allows for private browsing very easily (no cache, cookies, etc.) which I like for my work machine and any other shared terminals. I also think it’s a good idea to lock down passwords on any mobile dvices you use when you can (many apps offer it).
On FB, I don’t announce that we’re going on vacation so that the world knows (including the robbers)!!!
I also use paypal whenever possible – I will even pay a dollar or so more if the site offers paypal use!
I used to have very generic passwords, but after my husband’s email got hacked twice I’ve made them way more cryptic; my husband has taken to using an online random generator to come up with his now!
Change passwordonce a while. I change it every month! It helps!
Add “betterprivacy” firefox addon to your firefox browser to keep the newer hard to control SUPER- cookies at bay.
Paypal whenever possible!
In order to avoid having my account hacked, I no longer accept any third-party application requests inside of Facebook.
Never post you are on vacation on a social media site. It tells enshrined you are gone and leaves your home vulnerable to intruders!
I have password procteted my family blog before. I make sure nothing I post will end up in a google search result (this is a blog setting), and still make sure I don’t post anything too personal or that would identify where we live. And keep those cute bathtime pics off anything internet-related.
We are very careful about the things are kid are exposed to. Now that we use Netflix with the Wii, I long for a parental control option for the “browse” feature on this. I hope they’ll add this soon.
Setting your home wifi to private is also important
My favorite online security tip is to do this;
If your going to buy a larger ticket item or do large amount of online shopping, buy a reloadable debit card. You can buy them at any Walgreens or Rite Aid. Then if the card becomes compromised you wont have to worry about closing all your accounts at the bank.
You simply close the debit card. And your info is safe and you wont have to worry about being without your debit card until the bank ships you one.
Passwords with numbers and caps.
I use Paypal whenever possible. I like the extra protection it offers me and I don’t feel as worried about getting scammed.
I have my browser set to not keep a history log and delete cookies so as to avoid potential browser hijacking. I also, like many, use Paypal for online purchases and research businesses through the BBB.
The computer is in the family room. That way I can sit w/my kids during use. Also I like to discuss with them the good the bad and the ugly about what’s out there on the WWW. Open communication is always a good thing!!
Use different email addresses / usernames / passwords for different activities online – we all use the same for everything, with slight variations. Go with something totally random for all financial sites, so if someone hacks your social networks and email, they won’t have an easy place to start guessing your logins for more important stuff.
My favorite safety tool is spectorsoft (https://www.spectorsoft.com/). When I had a teenager in the house, it was loaded on the desktop. She knew it was there. It provided wonderful reporting if she visited certain sites, if certain words were used in email and chat – recorded everything. I loved it.
With my other children swiftly approaching the teen years, this will get loaded on all of our computers.
I don’t allow my husband to use the internet.
Monitor and discuss with your children early and often.
I have locations turned off on my phone for photos so others cannot see where my pictures were taken. ie. what park my kids play at.
What I don’t understand is why would people have over 300 friends on FB? Do they really keep in touch with all of them? That’s safety #1 in my book. All those people know where you are, have been, or are doing.
I never submit my birthdays or SS# to any websites that need it.
Our computer is in a central location so we can watch what our kids are viewing and our WiFi is password protected.
Always assume that everyone in the whole wide world will read what you post … And see what you post.
Only accept friends I know. Keep my privacy settings to friends and only refer to my child with an initial in public postings.
I make different random passwords with a mix of letters, numbers, upper and lower case for each financial site I use and change them regularly.
I think it can be really hard to find the balance between what to share and what to keep private. With kids, I think the more settings and information remain private, the better. I don’t use my kids’ real names online and keep all setting as private as possible on places like Facebook.
I update my passwords quarterly and don’t use easy things like my date of birth or daughter’s name. The tricky part is remembering them!
I especially check facebook privacy settings when putting up my photo albums of my kids. I only want my friends to see those pics, not everyone on facebook.
I set my email settings to only allow emails from my contacts to go into my inbox, so all spam and any other weird emails go directly into my junk email folder. This makes sure that I don’t accidentally open any email that contains a virus or anything else that could harm my computer and personal info. I do skim through my junk folder periodically to make sure an email of someone I know did not get put there, and if it did, then I just add them to my contact list so it doesn’t happen again.
I didn’t realize you can enable cookie alerts through your browser. Very helpful!
I didn’t realize you can enable cookie alerts through your browser. Very helpful!
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I would love to win an iPad!
I use PayPal whenever possible. I always use passwords with both letters and numbers. When my son is using the computer in my office I am either with him working in the room or I pop in randomly to see what he is doing. I ask questions about what he is doing as well, such as when a game involves chatting with other players. For extra security I enter each devices MAC address into my router to connect.
I don’t own any devices that use wifi away from my home so I don’t have that to worry about that yet.
An Internet rules contract, much like teachers have
at school is a good idea at home too. It’s a great
way to set expectations up front and consequences
too, and allows for discussion of Internet safety.
I use paypal for all my online transactions. I also check my facebook privacy settings pretty often. I change passwords on a regular basis and make sure that they are random.
I know everyone says this, but I am noticing as we become more attached to our mobile devices and tablets, it is easy to let your children slip into another room where they are not supervised. Always insist that Internet use is in an open area of the house.
Also, read the terms to accounts. Many of my students are signing up for google buzz accounts when the terms state they must be older than they are to have an account.
I do not use public wifi. Never did trust it.
I have set google alerts for my kids names.
I use random passwords that don’t mean anything for everything.
Password-protect your computer to prevent unauthorized access
I make sure our virus and firewall protection stay updated and run a scan everyday.
I feel safer using paypal
UseCommon sense.
Make sure your WiFi connection is secure.
I turn off my wi-fi when I’m not using my laptop.
A password doesn’t just have to be a single word. A phrase or short sentence is even better, while still using numbers, symbols, and mix of caps and lowercase.
Kid’s websites are notorious for spam and tracking and devices. I have taught my son not to click on advertising banners. I also run spyware / virus sweeps after he is done. It protects my privacy and keeps my computer running smoother.
Never give out personal information and always know what your children are doing and looking up on the internet. The internet can be a very good thing but also a very bad thing.
Don’t let websites autosave information. It means more typing when you come back, but it also means less chance of someone else getting your information.
Always use a “smart” password – include upper and lower case with a number and a special character.
I use Net nanny to keep questionable sites off my computer
Never allow your computer to make passwords appear automatically. They are then stored, and can therefore be found.
I change my password often and since every sight has their own password, that is confusing. I keep a small notebook just for passwords in another room. When I change passwords, I just cross it out and put a new one!
I have Facebook set so that whenever there is a logon to my account I get emailed, it makes me feel less likely to get hacked, even if that’s not really the case! 😉
Use Paypal for all on-line shopping, or at least whenever I can.
I use Paypal to pay for as much as I can when shopping on the internet. With paypal you purchase is always guaranteed and you don’t have to worry about the merchant seeing your financial information.
I use Paypal to pay for as much as I can when shopping on the internet. With paypal you purchase is always guaranteed and you don’t have to worry about the merchant seeing your financial information.
Do not make your passwords too easy to figure out. Use a combination of random numbers and letters, at least 5 characters or more. I know of someone that used 12345 as their password. Not a good choice.
Never click on ANY links, no matter who sends them to you.
We set all our browsers using Google’s Safe Search feature, so that kids looking for homework help can find what they need without running into adult content or images.
You have touched on so many of the tips I use:
Use your home computer for purchases
Clear out your cookies list periodically
Check your credit card statements
Buy from reputable vendors
Look for the s after http for security
I am hoping to learn from this series. Thank you!
We have a PC, and it allows you to create individual log-ins for each family member. That meant that we (the parents) could be administrators of the log-ins for kids – we can control what they can and cannot download, what programs they can access, and which web sites we can block. Having a log-in for each family member is a really powerful tool for controlling what they can, and cannot do online. So, for example, you can block Chat Roulette.
When shopping online if I plan on buying from a site I’m not familiar with I look it up on the Better Buisness Bureau’s website and search online for any complaints.
I use one credit card for all online transactions and keep a very close eye on those statements for fraudulent activity.
I make sure a site is https secure before giving out credit card information.
Our home wifi is password protected. Very important.
Generally, it’s best to share as little personal information as possible online. However, if you need to give out sensitive information like your credit card number and/or home address, it’s ‘always’ best to verify that the recipient of the information is ‘trustworthy’! This can easily be done by checking reviews of unfamiliar websites before entering personal information and allows you to see if others have reported issues such as ‘phishing’!
Make sure when you are doing any online commerce that you are using a secure site, indicated by https at the beginning of the site’s URL.
We have decided to use one Debit card for online purchases. we go one of those prepaid cards and add to it when we need to make an online purchase. I don’t want my bank debit info out there.
One thing I do when I’m shopping is make sure in the address bar there is the “https” instead of just the “http”. That “s” stands for security. Thanks again for a wonderful giveaway!
yes i also use paypay if availablr for payments online..except for itunes..people been hacked from that source..beware
Switching to paperless statements not only saves us $$ with stamps, but keeps the paper trail of our info to a minimum!!!!!!
I never submit my correct birthdate information when registering at websites. Month, date, year are off by 1 so that it’s somewhat reflective of who I am for their survey purposes, but never accurate enough to be correct for security purposes.
paypall all the way!
Have a strong password of letters and numbers.
After reading all these comments, everyone has posted my usual security checks. But just a quick thank you for all the new ideas posted!
I got a prepaid credit card which I have a portion of my paycheck direct deposited on. I use this card to buy things online, so if it were to ever fall prey to identity theft it isn’t linked to my bank account and only has the limited small funds each month, plus it has it’s own fraud safeguards. I think it’s one of the smartest decisions I’ve made in regards to internet shopping and privacy control.
My kids LOVE to play games on the computer, so we had a “block” put on our pc that enables them to only go to “our approved” sites! No pop ups 🙂
I never use public computers at the library, hotels, etc to check my email, facebook or do online shopping. I also, never allow websites to save my credit card information for faster shopping the next time.
Paypal is great. I also have separate strong passwords for different uses and have a separate email address that I use for online transactions. There are so many good tips!
I definitely try to keep my passwords as unique as possible. We password protect our wifi and even just our computer. We are also pretty strict on our facebook pages with who can see what.
We make sure our virus software is up-to-date and we run Spybot Search and Destroy once a month. Security Tango is a great tool also.
check your statements! I have found an error more than once- once a purchase was made with transposed numbers, not theft so it can happen!
For me, it’s making sure you have a credit card that is just used on the internet and checking it often!
I use Paypal when possible to limit the number of times that I have to share my account info. My credit card also has a “virtual” account number that helps too!
never use your real name
ardy22 at earthlink dot net
My biggest resource in online safety is antivirus and anti malware programs. I update weekly and I scan weekly, because even I’ve almost clicked on bad popups, not realizing they were virus attempts. Thankfully my Norton saved me. But I don’t trust that my kids are aware of such things, so hopefully being vigilant about it will prevent any problems that could also breach our security.
Purchase a good filter for your computer so that one will not unwittingly find themselves on troublesome sites.
Dove056 at aol dot com
I have different user accounts set up on my laptop for each of my children (and my husband). I’ve set the security rights/Internet browsing options based on who’s account is being used. Each is password protected so they cannot be accessed by anyone else (except me 😉 )
I always look for the little lock in the lower right corner of my browser window before making an online purchase. Also, we have a password-protected wireless network at home.
Wow! Thanks for all these great suggestions. We do a handful of these, but there are a bunch of ideas on here I didn’t previously consider. I’m doing so much nowadays with my smartphone, including letting my kids play with it, that I’m realizing I need to set a password to mitigate some random surfing/purchasing, etc!
I always have my antivirus on whenever I am online. If I purchase items on the internet, I make sure it’s a secure transaction before I enter my personal information.
I like using Paypal in order to decrease the number of retailers that have access to my credit card info. I also never use a debit card online.
I prefer to shop on sites that allow me to use Paypal. This way I am not giving my financial information to every place I shop.
I always pay attention to my McAfee site advisor to make sure I am not surfing in unsafe cyberspace.
I use way more complicated passwords now, with numbers and letters mixed. Harder for me to remember sometimes, but also harder to hack!
Try to put as little personal information on public blogs, especially if you are putting on pictures of your kids. In fact I suggest making blogs with pictures of your kids private and accessible only by people you know. If they are public, do not disclose where you live, last names, schools…anything that could tip off the wierdos out there where to find you!
in addition to parental controls for the internet – it’s always good to be in close proximity to the user 🙂
using a separate computer to do ONLY your banking and finances (including bill pay) is wise
facebook seems so vulnerable/exploitable. I haven’t tried this networking/community app since I don’t have an iPhone (yet!) but it seems perfect for safety and keeping in touch with those closest to you, it’s called Path, it’s at https://www.path.com/ but mostly it’s an iPhone app that is very secure. It keeps you in touch easily and well w/ the 50 people closest to you. Has anyone tried it? Do you like it?
Facebook seems so vulnerable/exploitable. I haven’t tried Path, a networking/community app since I don’t have an iPhone (yet!) but it is supposed to be a replacement for Facebook and seems perfect for safety and keeping in touch with those closest to you, it’s at https://www.path.com/ but mostly it’s an iPhone app that is very secure. It keeps you in touch easily and well w/ the 50 people closest to you. Has anyone tried it? Do you like it?
For security, don’t ever use your debit card online. If the number gets in the wrong hands, your bank account could end up in the negative.
txhottie_86 at yahoo dot com
Clean out cookies often.
I’m super careful about the information I share on Facebook. I used to have my full birthday (including the year), but I’ve taken out all of the really personal information, even though my profile is only viewable by friends. I also doublecheck all of my album and post settings on FB to make sure that only my friends are seeing those things.
always log out of any site when you are done!
Putting a password on your home wifi! It was talked about this today on the Today’s show. Now if only I could figure out how to do it!
priscillahogrewe at hotmail dot com
I change my passwords regularly and use different passwords for my banking sites than I do for personal sites.
I don’t leave dates out on the internet. No, not people, but vacation dates or birthdays. If I’m gone, I’ll post it online after I get back.
We are very consistent with checking financial info online, to be sure there aren’t any unauthorized charges. A clerk at a gas station ran our credit card 3 times in 1 week, when only one of those purchases was legit.
I do not open links in my email from unknown sources
make sure you have strong passwords (include Capitals and numbers)
KNow your kids passwords. If somethign should happen that you need to get into their accounts you will have easy access.
a free program totally saved my bacon one day, superantispyware
I don’t do facebook or myspace.
tukibird22ATgmailDOTcom
put a security freeze on your child – so they can’t be a victim of identity theft.
https://www.consumersunion.org/campaigns/learn_more/003484indiv.html
put a security freeze on your child – so they can’t be a victim of identity theft.
https://www.consumersunion.org/campaigns/learn_more/003484indiv.html
put a security freeze on your child – so they can’t be a victim of identity theft.
https://www.consumersunion.org/campaigns/learn_more/003484indiv.html
I often buy pre-paid Visa cards from my children’s school. Not only is it a fundraiser for the school (a certain % goes back to them) but I can purchase items on-line from sites that don’t offer PayPal and not worry about my credit card being traced.
Change passwords monthly–it’s an easy way to keep things secure.
best thing that’s kept me safe on the internet: a healthy does of skepticism! I don’t give out passwords over email, and I distrust anything claiming to need money or account info (through email). Snopes is my friend!
After having my email and Paypal accounts hacked, TWICE, I’ve learned that the best way to avoid that from happening again is to change passwords often!
I use snopes.com to check the validity of email offers
It’s a simple one, but I’m always nearby while my son is online. He only visits sites I’ve bookmarked. It’s too easy for children to find themselves on an inappropriate site, even by accident.
I like using PayPal!
I try to do many of the things mentioned above, I.e. Fb settings, change passwords often; limit type of contact info I put on social sites, use code names for kids on social sites, etc. Perhaps the most important thing I do is stay abreast with security issues and changes by reading, articles & blogs like this one!
Don’t store credit card info on websites you don’t trust.
I try to do many of the things mentioned above, I.e. Fb settings, change passwords often; limit type of contact info I put on social sites, use code names for kids on social sites, etc. Perhaps the most important thing I do is stay abreast with security issues and changes by reading, articles & blogs like this one!
I always check the sender’s email. I do not click on any links from an email that tells me I’m the winner of something I never entered. It’s ridiculous. I get them alot lately. They don’t go to my junk folder anymore lately they find they way to my inbox. But I don’t fall for it, first my anti-virus won’t let open completely an email that is not safe. I have a hotmail account and for the past couple days I’ve been getting emails from “windows live” telling me they are updating their system and deleting accounts that are not active and for me to prove mine is active I have to reply back with my username, d.o.b, and password? LOL I hope people don’t really fall for it, when their email has nothing to do with windows live, another thing I love about my antivirus is that if I do get an email from Windows Live or Paypal, a green arrow appears next to the senders email letting me know its safe. So, always have a good antivirus and pay attention to the sender’s email and if you get an email saying you won the U.K or African lottery you know it’s a joke and they want to steal you identity so be smart and don’t fall for it.
always use Paypal for purchases!!
I have our internet password protected and we have parental controls set on our internet for our son.
Great tip of the “s” ;never to use unless it’s https:
Thanks….
I always check the sender’s email. I do not click on any links from an email that tells me I’m the winner of something I never entered. It’s ridiculous. I get them alot lately. They don’t go to my junk folder anymore lately they find they way to my inbox. But I don’t fall for it, first my anti-virus won’t let open completely an email that is not safe. I have a hotmail account and for the past couple days I’ve been getting emails from “windows live” telling me they are updating their system and deleting accounts that are not active and for me to prove mine is active I have to reply back with my username, d.o.b, and password? LOL I hope people don’t really fall for it, when their email has nothing to do with windows live, another thing I love about my antivirus is that if I do get an email from Windows Live or Paypal, a green arrow appears next to the senders email letting me know its safe. So, always have a good antivirus and pay attention to the sender’s email and if you get an email saying you won the U.K or African lottery you know it’s a joke and they want to steal you identity so be smart and don’t fall for it.
I make sure to use PayPal whenever possible! But I’m really careful about everything I go to. Not only should to always check the link that appears at the bottom left bar of your browser before you click it. If it doesn’t look like and accurate link don’t click it. I promise you the Bank is having you protect your account via email.
When it comes to facebook just stay away from Apps, they are all evil. I’ve known that for years but did you know your iPhone and Android apps are also gathering all the information from your phone? Where you went for lunch, what you googled on the internet. The contact list…It’s pretty impossible to get away from EVERYTHING but if you stop and read the things you are clicking on before hand you can make yourself more aware. More importantly You’ve been warned!
With our family we make sure that our children’s time online is limited, that they only go to pre-approved sites and that there is always an adult in the room when they are online.
jweezie43[at]gmail[dot]com
My tip, don’t save your passwords on your computers. Way too easy for people to get into all your information. Instead pick one or two strong passwords you can remember to use
parental controls are wonderful!
I never store passwords and I have a different password for every account I have.
I frequently change my passwords and I never download or open email attachments unless I’m sure it’s not a trojan.
I’m not using foursquare and other location posting apps b/c i don’t want my wherabouts known– especially when I’m out of the house!
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As hard as it is to do this, one of the best defenses is to use a different password for all the different sites you use (like banking, Facebook, e-mail and shopping). Identity thieves are great at putting all the pieces of the puzzle together and this only helps them do what they do best.
make sure your kids do not give out passwords to friends
Keep your virus protection up to date
Always use credit card rather than debit care to purchase items on line.
Use paypal when shopping online instead of debit/credit card
I use only one designated credit card online with a low specified limit
When I have to give a first and last name on sites, I give only my last initial.
Keep your software up to date. This often eliminates weaknesses.
Look at the top of your browser. Make sure it says https (as oppposed to just http) this is a secure network!
I have long #, letter passwords
Always sign out of email, th etc. Even at home. Not doing so leaves you more vulnerable.
I always double check for the lock and the https. A quick google search on the company name if I’ve never made a purchase there helps, too.
It may seem obvious but keep your antivirus software up to date and run a scan regularly. I don’t know how many cpu’s have been brought to me that Norton could have easily saved.
I use my AmEx for all possible online purchases. They have great fraud protection. Also, Amazon has many things available on “off-label” sites and stands by any purchase you make through them.
Log off and then restart the computer after any financial activity online.
I do try to check my credit report once a year…just to keep tabs on it…
I use paypal whenever it’s available for online shopping. I also make sure to change passwords often, and have different passwords for various sites! Thanks for all these other great tips-I’ll have to get going on these!
My son did not have a laptop until he was working on college applications. In the meantime we had a desktop that was between the kitchen and family room so I and I am a SAHM so I was able to see most of what he was online doing. Every time I saw something on TV about internet predators we had a discussion
If someone says you won a prize, and sends it by western union, and you must send a portion of it back, its a fraud. There are a lot of those going around, and some people, especially people new to the interner, or elderly.
itsjustme62613 at gmail.com
I always use a Wifi network that I know is reputable.
Woo hoo, maybe this will be my lucky entry… I always shred junk mail w/my name and address, especially those balance transfer checks from credit card companies and pre-approved offers for new cards.
I keep my facebook profile on Private and only add people that I know in real life.
check each day that your wireless connection is secure!
I use the parental controls on my computer to limit the sites my children can visit.
i have a password generator..makes up complicated passwords
I wrote las night but I don’t see it here 🙁 My tip was to always check the sender’s email, for example I have been getting emails from ‘Windows Live’ the subject is Windows live update!!! And they say that hotmail/windows live is updating their system and deleting all accounts that are not active and the only way to prove mine is active is to reply back with my username, password, email, d.ob., etc, or they will delete my account in 2 weeks.LOL, of course the sender’s email has nothhing to do with windows live or hotmail, never ever send your information to people like that, do not believe you won something that you never entered to win, you did not win the U.K or African lottery, and you don’t need to send your personal info, always have an up-to-date Antivirus, that will help you out alot too, will warn you of unsafe websites and emails!
use parental controls for the internet – it’s always good to be in close proximity to the user 🙂
When choosing passwords for your bank account, email, and other sensitive information, be sure to ‘always’ use an intricate password that is not ‘publicly’ available or easy for a fraudster to guess! Weak passwords include birthdays, common words, your mother’s maiden name, and the last four digits of your social security number.
I use pay pal whenever I can. I’m loving all of these ideas. My favorite is to use another email for all online purchases. I also check my FB settings often, and do not allow any apps on FB permission to use my information. I simply do not play them!
I use paypal, check my FB settings and use a separate email address for online purchases. Thanks for the chance to win an Ipad!
We use one credit card not linked to any bank account for online purchases that don’t take paypal or google checkout.
priscillahogrewe at hotmail dot com
I use PayPal instead of entering my credit card info places. Especially smaller online companies. When one doesn’t take PayPal, I tend to decide I don’t need whatever it is.
I only friend VERY CLOSE friends and family on Facebook and have my security settings on HIGH.
From reading different things, I have learned to create more secure passwords. The idea of using numbers in place of some letters (like 3 for e) helps in keeping the passwords simple for me, but more secure.
Use Paypal!!!!
I forward on phishing emails to the spoof@ email address for a company (i.e. ebay) – this lets that track the spoof emails. I use PayPal as much as possible to keep the number of merchants online with my card number to a minimum. Also, I too keep my facebook “my friends” only.
My son loves car youtube videos, I try to be on top of making sure I have watched all the ones he would like and save them to my favorites so that they are safe for him to watch!
I like using paypal for my online purchases
Make your passwords strong and change them often!
And when you are shopping online, make sure the site is secure by looking for the https in front of the url.
I also use “Little Snitch”, a software that asks for my permission when an outside computer is trying to connect to mine. At the beginning it’s a bit annoying to have to decide what to allow and what not, but you can always start off with a list of sites that you will allow. It’s impressive to see how many sites are trying to or need to connect to your computer!
My husband updates my filters and security every week
change your credit card number… i hadnt changed mine in over 15 years… probably not a good thing, as i shop online often.
Use a seperate credit card specifically for online purchases, it makes it easier to track if there is a problem
Don’t use internet at free wifi spots that don’t have a password to get on. Coffee shops, etc. that offer free access without you needing to get a password, means its a little too open. Hackers can easily see what you’re looking at and can much too easily get your passwords while you’re logging on to different sites!
Never click on links in emails. It’s a good idea to always go directly to the site rather than clicking on links, especially for banking. I also try to hover over links to see where they really go and make sure they are valid.
Change passwords often!!
We don’t allow computers in personal spaces – no bedrooms, etc. They have to be in an open area.
I use passwords with one or two symbols, and change my passwords often.
We use parental control software (part of our anti-virus/security system) to make sure that our girls not only aren’t seeing things they shouldn’t online, but also so that they don’t give out personal information online without meaning to either. They’re just learning online etiquette and safety, so it’s good to know there’s a backup system in case they forget!
I use unique passwords with a combo of upper and lower case letters as well as other characters.
Make sure you use malware and spyware software to protect your pc.
Keep passwords private.
I try to limit what I post on Facebook so that there isn’t any specific information as to where I am or what I am doing.
I always make sure I have a secure HTTPS before I purchase anything. I usually purchase using Paypal.
My daughter is only allowed to use her laptop in the family room in my full view and we have blocked certain content and sites – thank you iGoogle. She is only allowed to visit the sites we have bookmarked for her and she is NEVER allowed to use her name online or visit any type of chat room.
As for myself, I change up the passwords, don’t use my childrens’ names on FB, Twitter or the like. I learned the hard way NOT to store credit card info on a site when that was stolen. Fortunately my card issuer called me to alert me to the fraudulent activity. I am a big fan of PayPal, too.
I try to keep up on what’s changing online and all other concerns by reading the latest news and Cool Mom Picks and Cool Mom Tech
make sure your address bar shows the site you think you’re at. sometimes you’re redirected and don’t realize.
I use really obscure coded passwords. I also use a major credit card online, since if a debit card got hacked they have your cash!
Use several different passwords for accessing your different internet accounts. Keep a record in a different place from your computer.
Being safe online is a constant. I use anti-spyware often which gives me peace of mind.
Unique passwords and changing them often!
As a Mom of three I regularly check out the Common Sense Media site. It reviews movies, tv, books, music and video games for kids and keeps me up to date.
We use one credit card for automatic monthly donations only so that if our main credit card account has to be closed and a new one opened, we don’t have to update our credit card info with all those organizations.
I set all my Facebook settings to “Friends Only” and opt to hide my date of birth since occasional “glitches” have exposed “Friends Only” info to the public.
Don’t allow saving of passwords, don’t allow storage of credit card numbers and I always use a separate email address for my online shopping accounts so I can monitor who’s selling their lists.
Never share passwords with other people.
A tip for passwords that I got from an IT person at my work: come up with a sentence that means something to you, and includes a number, and then use the first letter of each word plus the numbers as your password. For example: My little dog just turned 3 years old = Mldjt3yo
I have my children use a made-for-kids browser, like Kidzui, which gives them access to all the internet that they are interested in. All sites have been checked and they can’t navigate off of those selected sites.
Before I buy anything from a new (to me) online store, I do a Google search for the company’s name + “scam” to see if anything pops up. I also check the better business bureau rating. Chances are, if the company is shady, something will be illuminated with these simple steps.
I also love Paypal–and strong passwords–a different one for each site. Thanks for all the great tips!
If your young child ever receives an offer for a credit card in the mail, that is an automatic red flag. Check their credit record (obviously, they should not have one) to make sure that no one is using their identity.
Don’t use the same password for everything. And change them every so often.
Blocking access on my iPhone for the kids to be able to purchase apps. Huge for me.
Definitely use PayPal!
I definitely use paypal for all my online shopping!
Thanks for the chance to win the iPad2 – so cool!
I change my passwords often and make them a combination of letters, numbers and symbols to keep it extra secure.
While it may seem inconvenient, change your passwords (to your home network, facebook, etc) on some sort of regular schedule like they do in an office environment.
I keep a close eye on all my privacy settings on social networks and also check my credit cards and checking accounts daily. I only have two credit cards so that I have more control over my spending and am always on top of my purchases, so it is pretty easy for them to detect an unusual transaction and alert me to it.
Don’t use the same password for all your online accounts. Your most valuable accounts (email, banking, online shopping) should have different and secure passwords on them.
I use all the security measures for Facebook. I have people complain all the time that they can’t find me on Facebook, and I’m ok with that. I also never fill in personal information for emails, blog posts, or anything else.
Use a password on your home wireless network. It’s scary how many networks in residential areas are open. If someone else uses your network to download illegal movies or games, you have to deal with the upset Internet provider.
We have an alternative cc for online shopping only. It has a low credit limit on it. We regularly clear cookies and use software that allows us to choose which cookies come with a site visit.
I guess I should change up my passwords:-) Thanks for the great tip.
i like using paypal so only one site has my card info
I password protect my wifi at home, use paypal for purchases so my credit card information isnt on the web.
My favorite resource had to be lifehacker.com They give great tips and resources fir managing finances and tons of other parts of your life.
I use paypal to pay for things online whenever possible and frequently change/update my passwords to my accounts
never open an email from a sender you dont know!
Make sure that your computer is only accessible in a common or out in the open place in your home so that there is always someone “around” to be keeping an eye on kids. The other thing is keeping your teens cell phone in your room each night so that you can monitor texting and be sure that they aren’t getting texts all night long
I always change up my passwords, use protected wifi and check accounts often.
I have several secondary email addresses that I use for specific things, i.e. one for personal business like household bills, one for newsletters, one specifically for Facebook, etc. That way if anything does happen, I know which email account was hacked and which websites I need to update. I also know if it is a minor inconvenience or something that must be handled quickly to avoid fraudulent charges or identity theft. Each account comes into my email client, so everything is available in one place without having to log out of and into several mailboxes each day.
I have several secondary email addresses that I use for specific things, i.e. one for personal business like household bills, one for newsletters, one specifically for Facebook, etc. That way if anything does happen, I know which email account was hacked and which websites I need to update. I also know if it is a minor inconvenience or something that must be handled quickly to avoid fraudulent charges or identity theft. Each account comes into my email client, so everything is available in one place without having to log out of and into several mailboxes each day.
I have several secondary email addresses that I use for specific things, i.e. one for personal business like household bills, one for newsletters, one specifically for Facebook, etc. That way if anything does happen, I know which email account was hacked and which websites I need to update. I also know if it is a minor inconvenience or something that must be handled quickly to avoid fraudulent charges or identity theft. Each account comes into my email client, so everything is available in one place without having to log out of and into several mailboxes each day.
I also rely on PayPal pretty exclusively! It has proved to be a great protection! I also really like Gmail for e-mail. My other e-mails had been hacked and nothing was done, but the one time that my gmail was hacked they took action to help me secure my account again. I was very impressed.
I set Firefox to automatically delete my cookies and browsing history after each session.
Don’t give out your real birth date on the Internet!
I never pay bills or purchase anything online if I am not on a secured private connection. Too many hackers out there these days. Every penny I have counts and lord knows I cant afford to just give my pennies away.
The less “stuff” you sign up for on the internet the better. Lessen your internet presence and there is less information out there about you for people to find.
Don’t set your computer to automatically remember your passwords and lock your computer when you are away.
I keep my facebook settings as private as possible – photos and status updates are only visible to friends. I also have a husband who keep very close track of our banking, etc – so if anything came up, he would see it RIGHT away! And winning an Ipad would instantly make me the envy of several co-workers!
Create a password “method” and use different passwords on every site you visit. Make the “method” easy for you to remember so that you can easily create a unique password for each new site.
If the link or person’s name doesn’t make sense, don’t open it! That seems like common knowledge but it happens to a lot of people. If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is 🙂
Paypal all the way! And never buying anything from a public computer…
Always install every security update offered by the company that you use, and don’t use the same password for your e-mail and Facebook account.
Password protect your home WiFi! And it doesn’t hurt if you name it “FBI Surveillance Van”
I also like using Paypal. Always the best option.
I change my passwords periodically!
One of my favorite resources for web protection is Kim Komando. She is Usually pretty uptodate on all things security concerning the internet.
We use parental control programs on our sons computer and a password known only to us to actually access all the computers in our house.
I use different passwords for each and every online account and change them regularly.
While on Facebook, look at your URL address. If you see http: instead of https: (or don’t see anything before the www), you don’t have a secure session and you can be hacked. Go to Account | Account Settings | Account Security and click Change (to https). Check at least the first setting, FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
Using PayPal for online purchases as much as I can has helped keep my credit card info more secure.
Love using PayPal so I’m not giving my credit card number out to many sites.
I think simple advice is best. Look for the https:// at the beginning of your transaction. If it is not there, then you are not http-secure! Also, I LOVE paypal.
To be honest the best privacy safety thing we ever did is decide to not join Facebook. After my husband helped multiple friends with major viruses from Facebook, we decided it was the best route. It isn’t a very popular one though!
Change your passwords at least once a month and use something with special characters.
I do not put any personal contact info other than my email address on Facebook or any other website.
http://www.netsmartz.org is a great site to use for internet safety type topics. It is run by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children.
I use Immunet, a free anti-virus software to protect my computer. It’s pretty good at catching malware and Trojan viruses.
Definitely watch your Facebook settings – all photos default to public so make sure you have them set to your desired level of privacy. Oh, and I keep all photos posted of me by others set to “only me” – even though you can’t control what others post, you can at least control who sees it!
I do a lot of online shopping with our credit card, and make sure to check each statement against our purchases.
I do a lot of online shopping with our credit card, but make sure to check each statement against our purchases.
Having my husband convince me that is was a great idea (and way safer)to password protect our wireless internet. Smart man!
I change my passwords fairly often and I try not to use my daughter’s name when I talk about her. I call her The Girl or The Baby.
I change my passwords often, using a combination of characters, numbers and letters and make them case sensitive. I also never shop from public wifi. Please let me win the Ipad2!
I use Paypal whenever possible.
I clear the cache and everything else when I use my computer at home. I never keep personal information stored on the computer.
I constantly clear my cookies throughout the day on my computer so nothing that I do is stored away.
If you are online a lot and worried about safety, use your maiden name for everything instead of your married name. It makes it harder for people to find you or your family if they are trying to.
Awesome suggestions on here! Thanks so much for taking the time! I am constantly changing my passwords and use paypal when I can. Also, I never give my credit card out via email…only over the phone or on a secure site. 🙂
I love using PayPal for online shopping so I don’t have to enter my credit card info every time. I’ve actually stopped a purchase before because they didn’t take PayPal.
You can always run a program like Malwarebytes in addition to your antivirus program for the added protection it offers when visiting new sites online.
Using paypal is awesome because you have someone there that will follow through with complaints or issues with online purchases… I had an issue with EBAY and PayPal was great to help me Resolve it!!
Also By using your own bank account to set up bill pay allows you to control and stop payment if needed… and manage all your monthly bills in one place! It’s a better choice than setting up auto payments on individual websites!
Ipad 2 Ipad 2!!!
Aly
My best form of privacy online?
I keep turning down my mom’s friend requests on FB!
Doesn’t she know enough already, lol!
Be careful with wireless/WiFi communication. I use secure cable connection for submitting financial/ personal information.
I clear out all mycookies and cache regularly.
USE a separate computer for f financial transactions
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I subscribe to tons of newsletters to become knowledgeable about viruses and share that info with others.
My children befriended me on facebook and myspace by their own choice. Give’s me an edge on what’s going on at all times
Ensure you have a secure HTTPS before you purchase anything
Remember to log off if you are on amazon or other shopping sites on a friend’s computer, too. I’d have to have a password to actually make a purchase, but I take great joy in adding random items to my SIL’s amazon wish list after she left herself logged in on my laptop. 😉
I have filters on my grandson’s laptop so that he can’t download potentially dangerous software or stumble upon inappropriate sites.
I have the kid’s computer in the family room where I can see what’s on the screen. I also check the history fairly regularly. It’s so easy for the kids to mistakenly get to sites that aren’t appropriate.
I use a different password for each account that I have and I never write the passwords down anywhere.
Funny that one of the posting questions is ‘Remember personal info?’ on the internet safety page!!!
My big thing is to use different (yet memorable!) passwords for different sites – especially when they hold your personal data!!!
Whenever doing anything sensitive online (about to check out of the shopping cart, visiting the bank website, etc.) always check to make sure you have the little lock symbol (usually up by the address bar or down in the status bar at the bottom.)
Don’t allow your child to use a computer in their room. Put the computer in a frequently used room so you can monitor their activity.
Buy prepaid Visa gift cards from the grocery store to use for online purchases. That way, if someone gets hold of your information, there’s nothing to steal because you’ve already used all the money for your purchase.
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I use a separate email account for online purchases.
I would recommend using Screen Retriever to monitor kid’s behaviour online, live.
https://www.screenretriever.com/
https is more secure than http. And, the longer the password or passphrase, the better!
I use friends only setting on facebook
Use different passwords for different sites, and I try to make sure that key sites like banks, shopping, email and facebook are all different, so even if one gets compromised, the others will be okay.
Consider not using those apps that broadcast exactly where you are currently…like the ones I see on places like Facebook. Stating “Jane Doe is at Burger King on XYZ Avenue” is just giving away too much information!
In private browsing has also become a good thing to use if you are using a pubic computer. Internet Explorer and Firefox both offer it. It allows you to search and use the internet without storing anything you visit. When you complete your browsing simple close the window and it deletes all cookies cache and history.
I mention our great vacations after we return home. The robbers don’t need that our house is sitting empty!!!I also don’t post anything about my husband being out of town!
My suggestion is to read the comments or participate in a discussion like this one. It has been truly helpful for me! I wish I had time to read them all!!
Never check banking accounts when on public wifi! In fact, be very careful about what you look at when using untrusted wifi.
ALWAYS be sure that your kids use the computer in a main room in your home – and use blockers on sites. NetNanny is pretty great.
change your passwords every 6 months or so
Use only one credit card for online shopping in order to minimize the number of accounts exposed to possible fraud.
Use paypal for all of your online shopping
I move my hands over and type my password one key to the right or left so I can remember ONE thing but it is impossible (until now) to guess what it is.
I use paypal and ask the browser no to remember my screen names.. etc
I make sure my computer never saves passwords
I use parental control programs on my desktop for my children and also check their browsing history to monitor their usage. I also keep the computer in the kitchen where I can see what they are doing 🙂
Never, ever email password information and don’t post photos of your vacation on Facebook etc until you are back at home. You don’t want to alert others that you are away.
We prevent the internet connection on our son’s Nintendo DS to limit his exposure
I always use my credit card when I order online rather than my debit card. This allows me, if the worst does happen and someone gets a hold of my info, to dispute the charge with my card company rather than just watching my money vanish.
Never use a debit card online, be sure it’s a reliable vendor before you buy.
Very usefull information….I learn a lot by reading this today.
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Passwords, and change them often.
I use PayPal for every purchase where they accept it.
I have learned to be extremely careful about passwords….use upper and lower case as well as a number in the password.
I never do financial business on public networks. Never. No matter how good the deal or item.
look for the https to ensure you have a secure connection prior to entering your credit card info
I check https://www.getnetwise.org/ regularly, to keep up to date on what I should know about cyber-safety for my family. Their blog is very informative.
Be very cautious about posting pictures of children online. Set your photosharing to Friends Only or even Customize it to specific people if you’ve friended everyone and their mother. Do not set it as Friends of Friends, since you have no idea who these people are. Even more importantly, do not enable geotagging on your photos/posts/tweets. Doing so will give unscrupulous people the exact location of your home, school, business, Children’s school, etc.
I haven’t read through all of the other comments, and I’m quite sure someone has mentioned this, but for me, making sure a site is secure by seeing the httpS was a huge tip for me!
the best tip i have for internet safety is keeping the computer in a central area in the house no exceptions, I make sure there is plenty of comfortable seating and lots of surface space for everyones laptop and tablet and the main pc is in the family office space as well
Here’s a good tip: Whenever I’m asked to give personal information (like credit card info), I make sure there is an “s” at the end of the http in my browser. The “s” stands for secure site.
I try to use Paypal when shopping and if I can not, use a credit card with a low credit limit & never save card # on websites.
use pop up blockers and run your virus scan daily!
I try to make my passwords unique and I don’t use the same password for everything. I keep a log in a safe place with the list of passwords in case I forget them. If I am on a public computer like work or the library I change my password every few months for safety.
Never tweet or post on facebook where you plan on being. Keep the criminals from going to an unattended house or trying to find you at a location. Too many bad things out there these days.
I never use free wifi.
Treat your home computer as if it was a public computer no cookies saving info here!
I use paypal where I can for safety first. I also only have one credit card I use for online purchases.
My kids aren’t allowed to use the internet, even for games – unless I’m watching.
Installing No Script for my browser has been great, though it means some site a friend has linked to takes a bit longer for me to see. I keep it set to disable all scripts unless I permit them, and get to learn a lot about what information sites I visit are attempting to access.
I change my passwords a few times a year. Sometimes I forget and have to go through extra hoops to log on but it makes me feel safer.
Password protect your home WFI!
Thanks for the chance!
Periodically change your passwords and be sure not to enable the ‘remember password’ capability on your computer.
If I’m not sure about a site I click the little lock button. I’ve also started looking for https on sites where I might have to enter personal info.
I didn’t think about creating google alerts for my name and family members… monitoring online reputation can help with your own awareness.
I use the settings on the device I’m using to the fullest. And have strong passwords.
Setting all Facebook settings to private and friends only.
I use the Citibank credit card that offers “virtual numbers” so that your credit card number is never the same twice. Woo iPad!
Use Paypal and be wary of putting your children’s info out there, especially their names to protect them from identity theft.
I learned the hard way to always log off of fb. Yup! Got a virus because I kept it logged on all the time. Also, another one, I always let my son download free apps on my phone, I guess it’s not a good idea!
Particularly for facebook, I like and therefore subscribe to Reclaim Privacy, something which posts to my newsfeed if fb privacy policy or issues have changes at all. I’m pretty happy with it! In general, I try to incorporate longer passwords for different accounts that I have.
I have tried different anti-virus software until I found the one that works the best for me.
Use paypal and strong passwords!
I use passwords for my accounts and change them every few months.
I only accept friends on facebook that I know.
I don’t put pictures or information about myself or family for others to get.
Imagine that every word you write and every picture you post will be seen by your boss, your mother, and your kids (future kids if you don’t have any yet). Then you will censor yourself well enough to protect yourself. You never know who will access your information!
Making sure to check in and know the kiddos passwords and having open communication about what is acceptable.
I never log on to anything on a public wifi. If needed I just use my phone’s 3G
Keep the computer in the same room you’re in so that you can watch the kids!
I don’t post personal info on facebook
Such great tips!! I have a couple to share– I really try to use sites that support Paypal. It’s so easy and I feel safe with it. I also clear the history if I’m using a public computer or my work computer.
I use tons of groups of Facebook so I can share different things with differnt groups.
Never log into websites using your Facebook log in. I have my Facebook settings limited to the nth degree already, and when other websites suggest I “Log in Using Your Facebook Account!” I say nothankyou! I’d rather control who gets what info, even if it’s just pictures of my son.
Use Pay Pal, clear that cache after online banking sessions!
I try to use a combination of uppercase lowercase numbers and symbols when possible for passwords.
We keep our computer in our living room so we can supervise our kid’s activities. Thanks for this awesome giveaway!
If you use FB places or FourSquare, don’t post when you’re on vacation unless you limit your posts to absolutely only people you’re friends with. You never know if friends of friends of friends are scoping out houses to rob!
I make sure to change my passwords for my online accounts often.
I change my passwords periodically to prevent from being hacked. I also make sure to clean my cache every few days as well. I use a free download of cc cleaner, it works great! I hope I win an iPad2, I really want one and know that my children will benefit from being able to use it as well!
Look out for each other- sometimes it’s obvious when a friends’ facebook account has been hacked, or their email address is being used for something obviously not ‘them’. Pay it forward- let them know!
As far as Facebook and other, similar websites go… just don’t share information on there that you wouldn’t be okay with being public, period. Even if this means your friends have to message you to ask for your phone number or house address, it’s better safe than sorry.
When I visited my mother in the hospital recently. I brought my laptop to entertain her. The hospital had free wifi, so I used it. But before doing so, I made sure to logout of all my websites, email, etc. I was sure to logout of areas that I often stay logged into – Facebook, Netflix – as well as my home wifi network. I did not leave anything signed-in! You just can’t be too safe when using public wifi.
I check my history frequently and run a malware scan about 3 times a week. And change passwords frequently.
I try to change my passwords fairly often, and try to avoid using the same one for everything.
It took me forever, but getting my husband to switch from the (easier to manage) open wifi network to a passworded WPA made me feel a lot more secure.
I follow sites like Mashable and Lifehacker, which often have great advice about privacy. They also tend to jump on security breaches and such earlier than most other sites.
Whenever possible, I choose “friends only” sharing and require approval for someone to follow me. If it doesn’t have those kind of options, I don’t put personal info there or I don’t use it at all.
For myself, I make sure all my privacy settings are to my standards, like on facebook & twitter. While I do use my picture & name, I don’t allow anybody but my friends on FB to view the info, and don’t accept anybody I don’t know, even if we have mutual friends. And don’t share passwords or log on from others’ computers!
Even though my elderly parents have an email address…I am the one that does all their online communication…otherwise we would have tons of scammers out there just targeting them left and right.
use paypal not a credit or debit card
I use 1Password — it’s encryption and password creation are great.
I like to use a complicated password to avoid getting hacked!
We have our computers in the family room so we mointor what the kids do and we set time limits.
change password frequently
I password protect my WiFi to make sure that my information is secure.
Changing passwords every few months is a good idea that I try to do.
I don’t use my debit card, with access to my bank account, except to withdraw cash from an ATM.
Make sure your spyware/malware search and destroy software is updated and scanning regularly. Ours got turned off when switching ISP’s and it was a mess when we finally noticed.
We keep the wireless network and router locked with a password and network key required. My husband adjusts the signal strength so that it is only available in a limited area so that the kids can’t get on with psp or dsi game systems from their rooms. They may only access the internet from mine or my husband’s computer and only when we are home.
I use Stopzilla anti-spywear which is only $10 for a year after a $50 rebate. https://www.stopzilla.com/products/stopzilla/home.do
I only add people to my Facebook friend list if I know them. There are so many creeps out there, I really wouldn’t want just anyone having access to pictures of my kids.
Always password protect your wifi connection. Not only does it stop people from leeching off your bandwidth, it also deters people who are looking to get into your computer files remotely.
Don’t but personal info about your kids your screen name- like birthdays.
I read somewhere about keeping one password protected document online that has all your other passwords in it. Then you can change your passwords often and keep complicated passwords without having to remember each one. You just remember the one password to the document and you can get to all the rest!
Have a unique password for each website. Use a common password (including letters and numbers) and then follow it with@amazon for example. That way you’ll remember the password for each site and it’s secure.
Don’t tell everyone on social media that you’re on vacation and how long you’ll be gone. It’s an invitation for trouble.
I didn’t know that I shouldn’t store my credit card info with the sites where I shop. I will definitely remove my information from these websites. Great tip!
Use a different password for every site … and not ones that are easy to guess
I use 3 different security scans for my computer. Sometimes one of the free scans will pick up adware that the paid for security site does not.
Don’t click on links that come in e-mail. If you think there’s an issue that needs addressing, type in that site’s name directly into the address bar of your browser, making sure that the site is secure before proceeding
Get a good anti-virus that also detects keyloggers. Keyloggers record keystrokes and can be downloaded by forced download by just visiting a site. Pretty scary. Lets say you download a keylogger and dont know it, then purchase something online. Person in control of the keylogger know knows all that info and can make online purchases using your info from the comfort of their home.
Keyloggers are not a virus. They are a program parent’s use to monitor what their children are doing and saying online so most anti-virus programs will not find them or even search for them. Always make sure your anti-virus mentions keyloggers and be careful when visiting sites and downloading!
If you do online banking, then you can check your credit card activity daily to make sure there isn’t any unusual activity.
Don’t click on links that come in e-mail. If you think there’s an issue that needs addressing, type in that site’s name directly into the address bar of your browser, making sure that the site is secure before proceeding.
Capital one is a great credit card company for businesses, they are always looking out for you and call to notify if you have any suspicious activity on your account, Thanks capital one!!
Use a different password for every site … and not ones that are easy to guess.
I’ve found that when making purchases online I can go to my credit card site and get a one time use number to use. That way I don’t ever have to use my “real” number. Plus it has a value limit that I can choose.
We try to be very careful about posting about vacations on social media forums – especially when my partner is going to be gone and I’m home alone with my son. We often don’t post anything about our vacations until we’re both home.
Making lists of friends in Facebook is a great idea. Work friends and my in-laws don’t need to know all!
My husband is my own personal geek squad so I always have him check over my computer and he is always putting filters on things so fake ads won’t come up, blocks cookies etc.. I also take my own precautions by making sure I have all of my Facbook stuff set to friends only.
get a separate cc to use online
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Do not store credit card numbers on your computer.
Read more: https://coolmomtech.com/2011/03/tips_for_keeping_privacy_online.php#ixzz1GHwnlJvG
To protect my family, I don’t include our street address in the “about” section of my blog.
I use programs such as Adaware,Malwarebytes and Spybot to keep unwated spyware off of my computer.
I check my privacy settings on social networks to only include friends and I make sure I only become friends with people who I am actually friends with in real life. And even after that I don’t post any info such as phone number, address, or even current location.
Thanks for this very valuable info!!! I change passwords always and switch them up.
we password protect our wifi at home. and, i never allow a site, no matter how seemingly trustworthy, to save my info. better safe than sorry!
I use Paypal for every site that allows it as an option. Each time, it’s one less online merchant that has my credit card information.
have a long number, letter password
I check my credit report regularly. Checking used to actually affect your rating, but it no longer does. Knowledge is power!
I only check my banking info on my home computer (not on mobile products (phone or iPad.)
I am always shocked at how many of my Facebook friends don’t know their personal information, including phone number and address, are posted there. If you have a FB account, take a few minutes to go through every single privacy and account setting available and set them as high as possible. Check it often, as FB is always changing things around.
My husband is a computer security guy so I have learned that my passwords can not just be my pets name. They have to have symbols,numbers, and letters.
I am the first to admit that jm not as vigilant about this as I should be. I have changed my FB settings, and I learn about it from easy to understand articles like this one.
Some credit card providers have an on their site that will generate a temporary limited use cc number for your account, so you don’t have to release your real number.
I use paypal and got a paypal debit card and use only that for online purchases, it allows for easy tracking and because it it thru paypal they have more protection for buyers, and the debit card allows us to use the paypal account even if the site does not accept paypal directly. I also have it set so that we recieve and email evertime the account is used, or a purchase is sent thru so I can track everything 🙂
We keep our teens’ passwords and do spot checks if chat & browsing history. They aren’t allowed to use their last names on any social networking sites, and they have to be our friends on facebook.
Computer is in an area where I can watch everything my kids do
I use PayPal for many online sites so my credit card info isn’t floating around in too many places.
Never save credit card/bank account info on websites!
I try to keep the personal info I have on my Facebook page to a minimum, but I know I can do better. Also, even though I’ve set the security settings to as high as I can, I never post about being out of town if it means my house is empty.
Basically it’s just keeping on top and ahead of everything I do as well as my children. They understand internet safety and we have had many discussions regarding privacy. I limit photos I post online as well as never discuss where I am or where I am going!
TALK TO YOUR CHILD……
Check their history…….
But mostly spend time and communicate with them!
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Every few months you should get your credit report to check for any irregularities.
Normally I write about teaching my kids about things, but this one demands I go in a different direction. I talk to my parents about internet security, specifically the password protected WiFi network I set up for them and email do and don’ts (don’t open attachments. ever.)
The last thing I need is some porn virus to overtake their desktop!
I have a system for my passwords so I am not using the same one an every site.
I try and use special characters like @ or # in my passwords if programs and sites allow.
I like posting pictures of my daughter on facebook for friends and family, but I make sure to set up limits so those I don’t approve of can’t see them.
Designate a credit card that is for online purchases ONLY. If possible, have the bank send you email or text notification when a purchase as been made with it.
We are careful to only use password protected WIFI. There are a lot of unsecured networks available around us, but its just not worth the risk.
When posting ads on Craigslist, try to call when possible. By emailing everyone back (even to say “it’s gone, thanks,” spammers then get your real email address.
I do my own version of “Follow Friday” – as in “Whose Folloing Me Friday?” I make it a part of my weekly routine to check Facebook privacy settings, Google searches, etc. Making it a part of my routine has helped me to proactively manage what information is out there, without being surprised after the fact!
I never post a status letting readers know where we are, what we are doing, new purchases, etc. I also make sure that only friends and not friends of friends can see pictures and postings. And after learning the hard way, NEVER use online banking apps on a smart phone!
I’m not sure of all the technical terms, but when inshop online I make sure I see that padlock icon indicating I’m on a secure page. I’ve also started watching for a second indicator of greater security in the URL window: the company’s name in green type. (see, no technical terms!)
I went in and changed Facebook settings so only specific people on my friend list can see the photos of my son. Strangers and old aquaintances don’t need to!
Try to always change my passwords and log out
Completely from websites I use and set all applications
On Facebook to Friends Only!
Change your passwords often.
I constantly clear out my cache on my computer and I also use Paypal as much as I can for internet purchases. I like that the seller doesn’t have access to information directly.
We only use public wifi if we have to!
Vary your passwords from site
to site, especially where banking
and credit card information is
concerned.
We have our home network locked down so others cannot get in and we have all content reviewed by our in house monitor blocking sites like youtube that could have seedy material for the boys. Anything we are unsure of gets blocked by the firewall. If its something they need to get into, we just enter a password and boom, they are in. Make sure your passwords are tricky and original. And we change our passwords on a regular basis. The internet can be a really fun and educational tool for kids, but it can also expose them to worlds they need to be no part of.
I use a strong password on my email account. I’ve had it hacked before and it was a pain to get back. I also keep FB settings to Friends Only.
Password protecting Wifi and not saving passwords when I go to a website to login and pay bills, etc.
As much as I love Facebook, I’ve got everyone in our house conditioned not to click on any links or add any “Apps” that haven’t been checked out first. A lot of them lead to potential phishing sites and, we all know, nobody needs to deal with that headache.
For when I have to use a credit card online, I use one designated just for online purchases.
Have a password on your home wifi so no one else can use it.
I use the Mozilla Firefox Browser which does not have as many viruses and spyware directed at it.
Whenever I do something that requires private information on the net I make sure there is an S after http in the web address. I was taugtht in college that it means its a secure website.
Use PayPal to purchase online, change Facebook settings to private, change cellphone settings, limit personal information on Facebook, check bank accounts often.
I check facebook settings regularly, and make sure I disable applications that request access to personal info that I no longer use.
I use PAYPAL to make as many online purchases as possible!
Computer in the kitchen is the only one the kids are allowed to use, only when a parent is in the room! Each user has their own profile and login. Each user must log out as well. I used to keep FB open all the time but I’m starting to be sure I log out when I’m not actually sitting at the computer.
If you have wifi at home, make sure you SECURE IT!!! If not, anyone can get on your connection and access stuff on your computer too!
We use Net Nanny on our computers to keep our kids safe.
I think a good tip is to try to stay current with the emerging pc protection programs, keeping your security programs up to date is important. Also, I shred EVERYTHING. Even my junk mail.
Make sure to turn off in app purchases from an iPhone or iPad. It is so easy for kids to buy things otherwise with just one click! Trust me!!!!
Great security tips ladies — I’m a big security freak over here… (I actually was a background investigator for an engineering firm at one point in my life). 🙂
Anyway. Related to point #5. My daughter has started to get into online games, such as at PBS Sprout. And I think it’s super important to monitor activity (even though these things are supposed to buy you a few minutes of peace). At one point she was going to put in her full name (and possibly our address…I can’t remember) because that’s what was being asked. It was good that I was right next to her to stop that from happening.
I use paypal whenever possible because I know my credit card info will be safe.
I often work at Starbucks and found myself needing the Internet on the go, so I have my own mobile hotspot. I don’t have to worry about security at Cafes and we can use our iPad everywhere we go!
Ever since my PayPal account was hacked a few years ago, I’ve learned to create (and keep track of) more complex passwords that are (hopefully) more difficult to hack! Gone are the days of using the same password for everything.
We use Safe Search for kids in Google and they know that is the only search engine they are allowed to use. They also use kids safe Firefox as their browser. That combined with the fact they are only allowed on the computer when me or their dad is in the room keeps them safe.
Make sure to secure your wifi network and change your password monthly on all your accounts.
I monitor everything like crazy – down to frequent flier mile accounts!!!!!!
Always ensure you are on a secure site when transmitting personal info (https).
Never ever click on a link embedded in an email asking for personal info. And don’t open odd attachments (.doc, .zip, etc) – if it’s that important, someone you KNOW will contact you about it.
Don’t put your address or phone number on Facebook. Don’t post your full date of birth, names of loved ones (especially minors), city of birth, etc as those are frequently used as password combinations and used to hack your account.
LOTS of great tips out here! Printing them off for reference and a teaching tool for our daughter 🙂 Thanks and thanks for the chance to win!!!
I keep my friends on FB in groups so that I can control who sees what. I also change my passwords every few weeks.
I google myself to see what’s out there. This lets me know if I need to rev up my security settings on facebook or if there are any things I need to opt out of, etc.
doubt anything that looks too good – it probably is!
make all passwords extremely tough
ardy22 at earthlink dot net
problems entering today…watch what you post tell kids not to post addresses phone numbers or stats that parents are away or going away..
Anti-virus software is important – even if it is a little annoying!
I never use my kids’ names online and the only photos I post of their faces are on a private, invitation only blog I set up for friends and family.
Be suspicious of any emails requesting confidential information, and verify the request with the company and/or individual named in the email. Just clicking on a malicious web link can infect your computer. Also, ‘always’ remember to use ‘strong’ passwords and limit the amount of personal information you provide on social networking sites!
I always make sure that no passwords are saved on my computer–meaning, I don’t choose the “Remember Me?” option when it’s presented. Great tips here!!
I use a different password for every site (shopping, banking, etc). Also keep an eye on whether the site is https before submitting your cc info.
My kids are on Facebook and I’m “friends” with both of them. But, I didn’t want them to feel as though I was spying on them and I felt it best if I didn’t see everything they wrote on Facebook, so I’ve opted out of receiving their posts. This allows me to view their “wall” and check in on them periodically without interfering in their teenagerisms.
Change passwords regularly.
Remember that cell phones, iPads and netbooks are also internet devices so you should use the same rules! I have a lot of friends that protect their PC but store passwords (such as Facebook) in their phone and don’t have the phone password protected. Or they may give kids unsupervised internet access on these devices. The internet is the internet, so the same security measures should apply.
I forget where I read this (quite possibly here!) but a great rule of thumb is to not put anything on the internet you wouldn’t want your mother (or grandmother) to see. Personally, I don’t have a FaceBook account, but I know that’s not a practical tip for everyone. Thanks for the great giveaway opportunity!
I love the idea of putting the computer in a “family” place like the kitchen, living room, etc. instead of a child’s bedroom or back office. This way, I am available to help my kids and I can keep an eye on what they are looking at and vice versa!
I love using Paypal. I don’t have to give the company my cc number so it’s one less place out there with it. thank you!
I have frequent conversations with my kids to remind them not to share personal information while online. I also regularly monitor their facebook/email accounts. Thanks for the chance to win!
I’m fairly open on the internet but I definitely think restricting facebook settings is a biggie… and would be in our house if we had kids of the technology age!
I love the idea of putting the computer in a “family” place like the kitchen, living room, etc. instead of a child’s bedroom or back office. This way, I am available to help my kids and I can keep an eye on what they are looking at and vice versa!
I make sure to post about when we’ve been away only *after* we get back. No telling those potential thieves when we’ll be away!
I make sure that I’m the one who installs the antivirus software at the beginning of each year, that allows me to set the parental controls with the software, and a password (so parental controls cannot be changed without me being the one to do it), so I’m able to block out the junk without a battle. We have a teen in the house, so this works out really well for us. I can block inappropriate sites without him feeling his privacy is being invaded, and I feel better knowing he’s safer online with those controls in place.
I like to make my passwords my favorite song titles… Using lots of symbols and numbers. Be creative:)
I am a computer teacher for an elementary school. This year I created a month long lesson about cybersafety. It included discussions and websites that are safe for kids. Some of the websites are epals.com, edmodo.com, and http://www.professorgarfield.org. Keep our kids safe from internet predators!
Complicated passwords with upper case lower case numbers and symbols combined with frequently changing passwords helps a lot.
I definitely check my Facebook privacy settings often and limit who I share photos with on FB as well.
I use paypal whenever possible! And I check on my son’s online activities regulary so he is not sharing any information!
Make sure to make your home wireless router pasword protected!
I like to use Pay Pal to pay for online transactions. It limits the number of sites that have my credit card information and makes me feel more secure.
Ensure you close your open WIFI network to a more secure password enabled and change your passwords often! That’s it 🙂 Stay safe!
I set up all my daughter’s accounts for Facebook Twitter, email and gaming sites. She is not terribly interested in any of this yet but I like to have control of her accounts. I talk to her often about how public these sites are and how tricky some of the settings are. She is reminded that sharing personal information or opinions, saying things that can be insulting to other people are all not acceptable. The sands are always shifting and we need to be on top of changes.
To keep my kids safe, I don’t let them take any computers away from a family area. If I can’t see it, they can’t go on it.
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I don’t just monitor what my kids are visiting on the internet; I’m a constant presence while they’re online. All the website blockers in the world won’t stop all of the inappropriate things no child (or adult for that matter) should be subjected to. Also explaining the importance of NEVER giving out personal information online is a big one at our house too. SAFETY FIRST.
Some sites have the “remember me” box automatically checked when you log in. I always uncheck it so it is not saving my info or attaching unwanted cookies on my computer.
I use paypal as much as possible when shopping online.
As someone who was a victim several years ago, the #1 tip I provide everyone is to use different passwords for different things. Yes, it’s easiest just to have one or two to remember, but be sure to use one secure password for your email, and a different one for your online banking, another for PayPal, etc. Using the same password for financial accounts as you do your email means that all the criminal has to do is get your email password and, typically, they’re in to your other online accounts. Be safe!
Be aware of where your kids are on-line. Keep the computer in a public spot in your home, check browser history, etc.
separate e-mail accounts AND facebook accounts
My 10 year old just got an email account. For now, his email is an additional account that comes to my blackberry so I can see all sent and received messages in real time. He knows I have the password and I will eventually back off, but for now, I’m treating this like training wheels for the internet. It allows me to initiate conversations about the internet, email and online presence.
Keep your computer up to date with the anti-viruses.
Change passwords often and don’t put your whole life on fb.
Definitely always check your Facebook. I’m FB friends with my parents, and I have it set up so they can’t see my status updates (and I’m 24, btw, not a teenager – LOL), but sometimes I set it so they can see pictures, and then FB forgets and thinks they can see status updates too.
For privacy settings, I recommend being visible in searches, so friends can find you. You can still set it up so that only friends can message you, etc.
Do not open an email if you do not recognize the sender, and even though I am trying to win a free item here, when your facebook friend sends you a “win a (something)” email, it is probably not your facebook friend. My brother has been sending me emails for 3 weeks that I know are not from him.
We have a password protected wifi.
Setting up secure browsing (https) on Facebook by going to Account/Settings/ and checking the box that says: “Secure Browsing (https).”
Anything helps when it comes to Facebook!!!
I love the Ad Blocker Plus for Firefox. It works so good thought that it totally blocked this post! It saw the “Sponsored” section and hid it from my view!
We password our Internet. Also make sure your Facebook settings are set to private. Don’t provide your personal info (phone number, address)
We have our computer next to the kitchen!
I use the virtual credit card # from citibank when I pay online at more unknown websites so I don’t expose my cc#
I like to see what information is publicly available about me online at sights like spokeo, and see what information I can get blocked.
I’m careful when posting about vacations, etc on Facebook. I don’t pre-announce them, just talk about them when I get back. And I also go and check my privacy settings frequently in case they’ve slipped something new in there!
I use FB for work and personal purposes and while I share pics of my family, I make a point not to include personal ID info (i.e., birthdates) of my kiddos. Gotta put a few obstacles in the way.
To check the security on your iPhones and iPads too. After my son racked up $300 in charges on in-app purchases, I realized you can turn this feature off.
Computers stay in the living room–I have 3 teens who would probably stay up all night talking to their friends–so to avoid this all laptops stay in the living room.
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Separate online and “real” identities.
My credit card has a feature that is kind of like paypal. It will randomly give you a new credit card number for that purchase only. It expires in just a few hours, so if they try and steal it, it is not valid. I think the feature is called shop safe. Love it!
We use WindowsLive to control which sites our kids can go to. We don’t allow anything with live chat or that is above their age range. It really helps as we have both an 8 year old and a 13 year old.
I have Kerspersky Pure on my pc and have set the Parental Settings so my kids can’t wander into unknown or unwanted sites.
Anytime I see some sort of “I can’t believe this” video or “see who’s stalking you” click link, I check snopes to see if it is legit or some sort of spam/virus bot. Same goes for forwarded warnings (not really a safety thing but still useful).
password protection – use Capital letters and numbers in your passwords
I never write down, share, or store my passwords and I never choose the “remember me” option for passwords. I keep them all in my head… plus that has the added benefit of exercising my brain!
I use an app called 1Password – I have one giant scary master password and then 1Password remembers all the other passwords for all the sites/accounts I have online. It even creates complex/bizarre/superlong passwords for me and then saves them. It syncs across the lappy, iphone and ipad. Love it.
I frequently change my password and I am very careful about what I sign up for!
I set my privacy settings on social networks to friends only and then I sometimes post pics just for some friends and family to see. Also delete unsafe emails without opening them. Thanks so much for this I have learned a lot from reading all these great comments. Good luck to everyone! PS tomorrow is my bday 😉
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NEVER click on anything if you’re not sure of what it is, and keep your virus protection up to date! AVAST is a good free program. (I have no ties to AVAST. Found them through a reputable tech site and have used them for about 2 years now with no problems.)
I set my privacy settings on social networks to friends only and then I sometimes post pics just for some friends and family to see. Also delete unsafe emails without opening them. Thanks so much for this I have learned a lot from reading all these great comments. Good luck to everyone! PS tomorrow is my bday 😉
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I like Connect Safely’s Parents Guide to Facebook. https://www.connectsafely.org/Safety-Advice-Articles/facebook-for-parents.html
I think parents need to know what social software their kids are using, and how the privacy features work.
I learned a great tip from my husband…to make the clues…those questions you have to answer to double check it’s you when you have to get a new password or reset one…make those a little extra tricky like throwing in a digit to your mothers maiden name or something. not just the straight name or answer but a few digits.
I password protect my i-phone. Without it my search history, connection to my email, facebook, etc would be at a touch of a button to someone else. Easy to do and even my toddler can unlock it to play games!
I shop online only using paypal or bill me latter
Does it count that I do a lot of online shopping at work because the network is secure, whereas at home we have a wireless network — which is password-protected, but still…
Before I purchase something online or enter personal information I make sure the “lock” symbol is shown on the right hand corner of the web page.
I really like the Google family safety website: https://www.google.com/familysafety/
Their section on ‘tips from their partners’ is an excellent compendium of cyber-safety for kids.
Only shop at reputable sites. If you are unsure of the safety of a site, either don’t shop there or use paypal. And buy a mac instead of a pc…more fun and fewer viruses!
I’ve been using Microsoft Security Essentials at home it’s free and easy to use, assuming you have a Windows-based computer.
https://www.microsoft.com/security_essentials/
i’m learning so much just from these comments! my children are young but i plan to have the computer(s) in a common room in the house. haven’t decided yet if i’ll be installing keystroke monitoring software when they’re older 🙂
It’s important to lead by example. As a parent, I should be aware of my usage and its appropriateness in time spent and content. I should have nothing to hide from my children (within reason) and they should be open about their use also.
Setting Facebook settings to https was useful advice to me.
I only use my son’s initials, and limit the people who can see his pictures when I post them on facebook.
I have my Internet settings adjusted so that it clears my “cookies” and limits pop-ups while I surf the web. Sometimes it can be a pain if I want to use certain applications, but I can always change the settings if I need to. I’d rather be safe than sorry!
We aonly aloow computers in the living room. No creeps on my watch!
I really like using Paypal when shopping online, since it is easy to use, seems to be safe, and very convenient to have all that info in one place.
I have used a program called Net Nanny which allows me to truly supervise the usage of the internet for my secretive teenager. Anything she does is collected and reported to me via e-mail in real time, so I know if she has tried to use the internet when I’m not home, or signed into myspace or whatever. Awesome program!!
Always use the strictest privacy setting on facebook as well as the most secure passwords.
Always use long passwords that are a mix of characters and numbers. Change the password often. Encrypt your wifi.
Honestly I’ve learned alot reading through these comments! I think paypal is fabulous for online purchases, and I always check to see if any website with personal info is secure with the “s” after the http… even facebook!
Keep your home computer in a high-traffic area so you can keep an eye on what your kids are doing. No computers in the kids rooms!
I use a program to keep track of all my passwords so I don’t have to write them down.
A good way to create a secure password is to use the first letters of a phrase that is easy for you to remember. “My second child goes to Riverbank Elementary!” becomes MscgtRE!
Change your passwords frequently!
I use PayPal as much as possible rather than enter my information into several websites.
Don’t shop online or go to banking accounts from public wifi connections.
I always use a unique password and change it frequently
no matter how safe you think you have been always check your accounts and settings regularly
I check my back account online every day to make sure everything is okay.
Let your kids know that you check their browsing history often and keep computer in high traffic area.
Chain mail spreads viruses–delete and do not forward!!!!!
Chain mail spreads viruses–delete and do not forward to friends!!!
I update my passwords regularly and delete cookies and saved passwords once month
I empty out/delete my “cookies” folders/files whenever I do any online shopping.
I make sure when doing online banking or ordering I have a secure ‘https’ webpage. I also use Amazon or PayPal when possible to limit entering credit card information.
I like to read science and technology sections of newspapers/magazines. I just read the other day that facebook owns your personal information and can distribute your address and telephone number to organizations. It’s no long facebook, it’s now a phonebook!
I use the strongest spam filters on all of my accounts, and I check them regularly.
I like to use paypal, and I never have websites save my passwords. I also don’t allow cookies, as I don’t trust how they monitor what I view and my interests are.
Set your security settings on your applications and monitor what information is OK for others to see and know on facebook. Also keep a central area for the family computer at home.
Limit personal info stored in Facebook Database
My boys (9 and 10) are able to navigate around the internet quite easily. We established a set of rules when they were first learning about it. They are allowed to freely visit sites I have bookmarked in a folder just for them. They need to ask permission for any other sites and they know never to share any personal info.
I am so careful of the pictures that get posted of our family and home online. It’s so easy to give away more information than you ever would write about. If a picture is worth a thousand words… that’s a lot of information 🙂
I love to tweet for my family and friends about the funny things my kids say, but I also want to protect their privacy online so I never use their real names. I give them nicknames that the people who know us would recognize. I also limit the people who follow that account.
I make sure our wifi at home is always password protected, and we change the password every few months to be sure of safety.
Check your local library. Many of them have free classes for children to help them with safety issues while using the Internet. My children took a free course and it was great ~ really opened our eyes on what to look out for!
Googling yourself regularly is a good idea. I know it sounds vaguely dirty, but it’s smart to be aware of what other people can access with a finger and a laptop.
Also, I recommend putting all of your Facebook friends into lists, this way if you have friends you don’t know particularly well, game friends, for example, you can easily prevent them from viewing your personal status updates.
Not clicking randomly on links sent requiring ss# or other identifier to access the site i.e., email sent from bank or cc, etc. 🙂
I am a fan of the service called the last pass. I’ m trying to get my dad to make the switch- he perpetually forgets his password and has to do password recovery. The Last Pass is much more secure.
I’ve read that unless you use your computer’s camera on a daily basis, you should cover it with a small piece of black tape. That way, if your computer is hacked, you can’t be seen. Apparently some people have had various accounts broken into because someone is watching their keystrokes from the built-in computer camera.
Change your passwords regularly and research retail site before buying from them.
always make sure your computers updates are, well, up to date! there are lots of security measures that are updated as well, so don’t ignore those alerts to update your machine!
i quickly learned not to click fishy-sounding links on facebook….apparently southwest was NOT actually giving away free tickets but it was too late~my facebook page ended up spamming almost everyone else’s page that i know. be smart about what you click on, even if it looks like it’s from someone you know!!
Remember that anything you post is potentially public. Don’t post anything you wouldn’t want your employer, minister, teacher, child or parent to see.
Use an email account specifically for online memberships, purchasing, etc. Personal emails, banking accounts, etc. Should be linked to a separate email with separate password.
I have two email accounts one just for correspondence and one to use when sites request them or to use when making on-line purchases.
Password protect everything! I use different passwords for every site I visit. I
I make sure all of our devices have up-to-date anti-virus software, and do periodic scans to make sure they stay clean. Thanks for the tips, good ones, all! Oh yeah, and C’mon iPad!!
When purchasing online I make sure that I’m using a secure website.
Password protect everything you can and don’t use the same password for everything. 🙂
When you are asked to make a security question make the answer a lie. Example: Street you grew up on?” Don’t use the actual street you grew up on! It is too easy for someone to get! Have the answer be something insane like “Jelloisgood Ave”
Always have an up-to-date antivirus. Make sure you check the sender’s email address. For example, I’ve been gettind these emails from ”hotmail””windows live” wanting me to send them my username and passord, state where i live and alot more stuff that they would already know if they really were from hotmail or windows live support, and their address has nothing to do with the subject or the company they say they’re from, so always pay attention to that, I love my antivirus, it always warns me of unsafe emails and websites, even if sometimes antivirus are expensive they atre definitely worth the price, you either pay for that or pay at least twice the price to buy a new computer and have your identity stolen.
Using outstanding virus software and monitoring all child activity on the computer.
I have a fake birthday for all on-line web pages that request one.
Not sure about a PC, but my kids are set up with a separate account on the Mac just for them. It gives them the freedom to move around to the various websites I’ve allowed them access to yet gives them the “ownership” factor which I think they love.
You can also limit the time they spend on their account.
Nothing beats parent supervision though. I think it’s important to have the computer out in an open environment because no matter what “locks” or precautions you take, it’s still good to know!
Whenever I blog or post anything online and mention my kids, I never say their names or post their photos.
dont use your birthdate for passwords
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Sometimes, your computer or smartphone will automatically join unsecured, free wifi network at places like coffeeshops, airports or even gyms & hospitals! To be sure your passwords or other vital information does not get hacked, always set your devices to ASK YOUR PERMISSION before joining any public network, even if it is a previously ‘known’ network that you use often.
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I use separate email accounts:
one for personal correspondence and one for subscriptions and online shopping
iPad!
i use paypal, have my setting set to friends only on FB & have up to date spyware/anti-virus on my computer.
Keep your computer in a public area of the house. That way, you can see what’s going on.
I’m careful to watch how much personal information I give in online discussions. You never know who is watching.
Every time I access a bank account via the web, I make sure to click the “Log Out” button and confirm that I’ve successfully logged out, rather than just closing the browser window. I even do this on my home computer.
I love that you can create “accounts” on Macs. We have an account set up on my laptop for my daughters and are able to set all sorts of parental controls on it, limiting where she can go and what she can do online.
I dont give my email to companies that much at all as I like to keep things private
– Be careful which sites you allow to save your personal info.
– Never “save a credit card” on a shopping site. It’s saver to just enter it each time – for your pocketbook AND against identity theft.
– Lock your smartphone. Make the password difficult to break.
My password for websites used to be the same as my email password. Changed this, and have a separate password for email than for websites now.
Remember that information that you post on the web is permanent (and often public) despite privacy settings or deleting old accounts. Don’t post personally identifying information that you don’t want others to know or that you don’t want someone to aggregate with other information about you so they can put it to misuse. Also, create strong passwords. A trick is to take a phrase, such as “live long and prosper” and substitute symbols, punctuation, and numbers to get something like this: “L1veL0ng&pRosper.”
We use CCleaner once a month and NEVER use public wifi for any banking or buying.
Only go to Web sites you trust, never open e-mails or attachments from people you don’t know, and look for an “https” or the lock symbol at the point of purchase to know it’s secure.
There are several things that we do as a family that just come as second nature like checking for the https, being mindful when setting up passwords that they cannot be easily hacked, and making sure that the computer that the kids are using is in a shared living space in our home. Thank you for your helpful suggestions to keeping us all safe online.
Paypal is safe for payments
We haven’t had to think about this much since our babe is only 10 months old, but these are great tips to remember!
I always check privacy settings for the oages I visit most and others if I have time. tukibird22ATgmailDOTcom
Be sure to disable the gps feature on your cell phone digital camera, otherwise, if you post the photos, people can use the geotags to track where you took them (find your house, etc) and be sure the privacy settings on social media are how you want them
Be careful with adding colleagues, co-workers and people with whom you have a professional connection as friends on Facebook, because comments and photos you post on Facebook could come back to haunt you. If you need to use Facebook in your work setting to accomplish tasks as part of your job responsibilities, consider setting up a separate Facebook account using your work email address.
Do Not Save Passwords on internet sites… password protect your cell phone so little fingers can’t get on and click around… run spyware scans regularly!!! Ipad 2!! Ipad 2!!
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I created a separate email address that I use only when needing one for registrations or purchases online. This limits my spam. I also make sure I have up-to-date security software on my computer.
I don’t open any emails with addresses I don’t recognize and I always opt out of an online store asking to store my information to help streamline my next order.
If you are logging onto a website pay attention to whether it says “http” or “https.” If there is an s at the end that means “secure” and the website is paying attention to who the user is and encrypts the data so that hackers can’t get to it.
For example, on facebook there is a security option that you can choose to view your pages only on a secure server, and you can verify that this is working by looking at the URL and making sure it says “HTTP.”
The same should be true whenever you log on to an online shopping website or anywhere you might be putting personal information.
Using both an antivirus software and a malware software to scan your computers. I didn’t realize how much stuff the malware software would catch that my regular antivirus totally missed! (totally rad giveaway, BTW!)
strong passwords and up-to-date security/virus software
Always have a password secured WiFi connection!
If I ever have to buy or use a card for anything other then paypal, I make sure to buy a pre-paid gift card so my card isn’t floating around the Internet. I also frequently change my passwords and make them as difficult as possible.
If I ever have to buy or use a card for anything other then paypal, I make sure to buy a pre-paid gift card so my card isn’t floating around the Internet. I also frequently change my passwords and make them as difficult as possible.
don’t leave the little darlings alone with the internet!
As the mom of a “tween”, I was nervous about allowing him to have an email account. We spoke extensively about Internet safety, and agreed that me having full access to his account was required at this point in his life. I have it sent to my iPhone so I can check it on a regular basis. He told me he is actually thankful that we do this, since he now has the easy “excuse” of his email being monitored- kids don’t send him some of the naughty things that some of his peers have gotten in trouble for viewing.
It might sound simple, but I think just encrypting and password protecting our wireless router goes a long way in protecting our privacy.
Limiting my FB settings.
use a separate email account for shopping, blogging etc. and make sure your anti virus is up to date.
I never purchase anything on my work computer, because of the possibility that the tech department can view my transactions. Best to online shop at home on my own computer.
Facebook defaults to a none secure setting. To be more secure on Facebook, look at your URL address; if you see http: instead of https: then you don’t have a secure session and you can be hacked. Go to Account / Account Settings / Account Security and click Change. Check at least the first setting, FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
Facebook defaults to a none secure setting. To be more secure on Facebook, look at your URL address; if you see http: instead of https: then you don’t have a secure session and you can be hacked. Go to Account / Account Settings / Account Security and click Change. Check at least the first setting, FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
Keep the computer in the common areas of the house…kitchen, living room,etc
Facebook defaults to a none secure setting. To be more secure on Facebook, look at your URL address; if you see http: instead of https: then you don’t have a secure session and you can be hacked. Go to Account / Account Settings / Account Security and click Change. Check at least the first setting, FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
I hate spam email (like everyone) and occasionally one makes it through my filters such as newsletters or even a DHL notification. Be extra diligent before you click the links to “unsubscribe” from newsletters or check other information. Common sense goes a long way!
I change passwords every few months and make sure that they are strong (use numbers, symbols, etc).
Facebook defaults to a none secure setting. To be more secure on Facebook, look at your URL address; if you see http: instead of https: then you don’t have a secure session and you can be hacked. Go to Account|Account Settings|Account Security and click Change. Check at least the first setting, FB defaults to the non-secure setting.
I use separate email addresses for actual emails vs shopping vs surveys, etc. Thanks!
I don’t put my kids’ pictures and names online.
I use paypal and use a combo of numbers/letters for passwords…
We have a program on both of our childrens computer that will alert us if they go to a webite that is questionable.
We have one credit card that we use for online purchases only so we can be super vigilant about the charges…
Relying on my husband, the software engineer, to manage our online security saves me a lot of headaches. Couldn’t run this household without him.
Always check that a website is secure (https or the little locked lock) before entering any personal or financial information, and use PayPal whenever possible for online purchases. I know these little tips have been shared by many, but they really are important. Your readers have an abundance of good advice – thanks for sharing everyone, and thanks for raising my awareness!
Don’t fall for those ‘Help, I’m stuck in Nigeria’ emails…
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keep your user names unusual, but easy to remember
I put a firewall on my wireless so no one can use it when they are near my house.
I try to keep my passwords and information safe by making sure if I purchase things online they are on a secured transaction line before I submit my information.
When I do any banking or anything online I change my password from time to time so they won’t get hacked.
If I am unfamiliar with an email that is being sent to me and has an attachment I do not open it up just incase it has a virus in it.
Try to change passwords regularly and come up with ones that are hard to crack. A tip I learned it to think of a sentence and use the first letter from each word. (The sky is blue = tsib)
Turn off your computer when you are not using it!
I like to shop online at sites where I can use Paypal.
I talk with my daughter about not sharing where she lives/attends school online.
Secure your home WIFI!
for internet safety and privacy stay away from all unknown sites, do not click links in emails from unknown senders and never download something that you aren’t positive what it is.
I sit down and help my mom with new sites. It’s difficult as each site changes their privacy policy, and as much as I train my mom (she’s 60) they find new sneaky ways to do things.
But I google her name and our family’s names at least once a month to check if something got loose and set at “public.” I also set up google alerts (www.google.com/alerts) to be sent to us weekly.
I regularly search my name on facebook without being logged in. This allows me to see what a stranger would be seeing!
I always always always use paypal. 🙂
Change your passwords often!! and keep your passwords private!
I make sure my internet connection is secured and password protected!
It’s such a no-brainer, but don’t forget to log out after signing in, especially when you’re doing online banking or using a public workstation. When I forget to log out of Facebook at home and all my husband’s links and geeky comments show up on my wall, it’s no big deal, but when I imagine what would happen if a less-than-honest stranger at the public library started posting as me, or worse, got an account number…
Lot of great answers! I’ve had my identity stolen and my card (A brand new one that had only been used once) stolen and used across the country to book a limo for the evening for about $700…Thank goodness my bank didn’t let them use it and then refund the money. They called me immediately. Apparently the 1 purchase I made online was hacked So I try to be more careful about every site I’m on. I’m the worst about shelling out information though. Thank goodness for fraud alerts on Credit reports though they won’t authorize and credit information without calling me and asking 3 very random weird questions and showing the company my ID.
don’t announce that you are going on vacation/out-of-town on facebook before you go. you can post all about it once you get back.
The computer is in the living room so that we are able to check its activity and I never allow access to my facebook account, meaning if a website wants to post on my account I just leave it.
Thanks for the awesome giveaway!
As a parent and technology educator I think one of the most important tips for keeping kids safe online is to make sure the computer they use is in a public location in the house like the family room or kitchen. That way they can always be monitored.
Simple, but…keep computers with Internet access in a open place like the living room or kitchen .
Clear your cookies! Otherwise your info is stored and some programs follow you and your internet browsing behavior.
So many great tips! I never use my cell to make credit card purchases…have heard that is easy to hack.
Thanks for the great blog!
When making an online purchase I use paypal or visa verify, it protects my credit card info. I also have everything on my facebook page blocked. I don’t use pictures of my son as my main picture. And I make sure i use passwords to protect my stuff
Much to the chagrin of my lovely wife, I force a password change on ALL of our online accounts every six or seven months. That has helped our info stay safe – so far!
Paypal is the webs safeist portal.I had an issue years ago and paypal had MY back!Highly recommended!!
My biggest safety tip with kids and the internet? Don’t take it away as punishment, they are going to do it anyway. It’s better to keep the lines of communication open!
I use a different email address for personal email and “junk” email.
I also agree with using Paypal for online purchases! That way you aren’t sharing your credit card info with anyone.
I have worked with the students I teach (and some of their parents) to ensure that their profiles in place like Facebook have somewhat strict settings to protect themselves the way they should!
I use paypal to pay for everything. Secure site. Never had a problem.
My husband turned off the settings on flash to allow 3rd party content to be stored on your computer.
I have YouTube disabled on my iPhone. When my son asks to use it so he can play his favorite apps, I no longer have to fear what might pop up on YouTube, as I have been surprised before. Bad “associated” content is there even if he’s watching Super Mario or Beyblade. Not anymore. And if I need to see YouTube, I can always watch it on my MacBook, which is password protected. That way I don’t have to keep switching YouTube on and off on my iPhone.
As my three-year old navigates through you tube, trying to find the later transformers clips, I often found him on videos that were r-rated. To solve this problem, we created a username just for him, that has restrictions for what content he can and cannot access.
We also use different passwords for every site…it was a pain at first, but definitely will keep hackers on their toes. That along with a password protected wi-fi, we don’t worry.
I think that kids need to be aware of their privacy settings when playing video games and chatting with strangers. They don’t realize that people on the other end may not be who they say they are!
I started using the website doxo.com for all security features related to passwords and bills.
I check my privacy settings and reevaluate my friends list to make sure that I’m only friends with people who “need” to know whats going on in my life!
Always operate under the assumption that anyone can read your posts on Facebook or any other social network site.
I started using the website doxo.com for all security features related to passwords and bills.
I started using the website doxo.com for all security features related to passwords and bills.
Always…Always…Always know what your kids are doing online….the internet can be a dangerous place for kids if they are not supervised…teach them to use the internet safely and set limits of what they can and cannot do.
I married a tech geek – best security ever 🙂
Make sure you’re on a secure website by looking for the “s” in https and looking for the padlock in the address bar.
I report all spam emails I get and keep my settings all private on facebook.
Change the default password to something else on your wireless router. That will help secure it from people trying to hitch a ride on your network.
Thanks for the giveaway…I change my password every month or so, especially those associated to important accounts i.e. banking, insurance, etc.
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I check my Facebook privacy settings weekly since they seem to change the rules that often! Since I post photos of my daughter, I want to be sure that only my friends are seeing them!
I have different user accounts set up for my kids when they use my Mac. When they log in, they have time restrictions, and can only visit certain websites that are safe.
Make sure and delete your history every day. You would be amazed at how good your computer is at remembering what you typed!!
Lock down your home wifi!!! 2 of my 4 neighbors have an open network I can jump on – just asking for trouble!
I don’t store any passwords on bank or credit card account sign-in screens.
It’s our rule that our computer/ laptops must only be used at the livingroom desk. I think by doing this we are being accountable in which sites we visit and in the future for whom my children chat with.
I use facebook group settings. I only share photos of my son with close friends and family. If anyone else needs to see him, I’ll email them privately.
regularly change passwords
From personal experience – back up your files! If for some reason, you do get hacked or encounter a virus you can reinstall your factory settings without worry of losing valuable files. The minute I suspected I had been hit, I did this. Backing up doesn’t have to be complicated – it can be as simple as purchasing a USB memory stick to emailing your files to your own email address.
I always remember to uncheck the box marked “save my login info” when I am using a shared computer. The next person could just type in yahoo.com and my account would come right up – scary!
Our son uses his own mac profile, and is only allowed to go to the sites we let him go to (ie pbskids.org). This prevents popups and doesn’t let him navigate anywhere else.
Uses strong passwords, change them often, keep them in a safe place.
(It said my last comment didn’t go thru) .. But I have an email I use for entering stuff in online, then a private one I use for personal stuff.
Checking history is a great way. Also positioning the computer in the family room or a room with a lot of activity will keep the parent involved.
I set up a seperate account for my son and the only websites he’s allowed to use are the ones that I’ve saved as icon favorites. Easy for him, too, because he’s sees the icon and knows which website is which.
It’s simple, but learning to look for the secure s in https has saved me many times!
If you wouldn’t give the info out in person, don’t give it out online!
Snopes.com is huge for me. I can always find out if the money I’m about to donate is really going to an orphanagenin the middle east or not!
I installed NetNanny on my computer. It filters out all the risky sites.
Monitoring my young children’s internet usage by only allowing them to visit sites that I have approved and bookmarked is simple right now, but I will be looking for more ideas as they grow.
Google Alerts for your name, checking out the information that sites allow and double checking security software.
Remember to use secure websites and if the deal seems too good to be true, it is!
Constantly telling husband and son to log off sites and not to keep windows open.
We use very strict privacy settings for our network and social media that we participate in. We share very little that involves our children.
Don’t have your computer store passwords or any personal information!
If you shop online make sure you are on a secure website.
My kids are still very young, but love to be on the computer. They each have a bookmark setting with their name and the sites they are allowed to use. We also don’t let them use the computer without us in the room.
Talk to your teens about facebook and twitter. Sometimes they just don’t understand that anything online can be seen by anyone who tries hard enough.
I have my Facebook settings all set so that only MY friends can view my information. I am terrified of sharing too much information on there and don’t want “strangers” knowing when I’m not home.
I have two email addresses that I use. One I give out for things I sign up for (such as newsletters, sale alerts, contests) and I ask that friends send any jokes they send me to that email as well. I use another for more important things like school and non-spamming emails from friends and family. This cuts way down on time checking email. I can go to one place to find the most pressing emails without having to search through a ton of spam.
I change my passwords on a regular basis and be sure to use a different password for each account.
We don’t use our kids’ names on our blog. And try to use paypal as much as possible.
Adblocker plugin is helpful for FireFox & Chrome browsers!
I never click on links or attachments I don’t recognize. We also password protect our wireless signal.
internet–keep the computer/ipad in a place where adults can monitor usage–nothing can take the place of parental monitoring!
Use only a credit card online, not a debit card.
My daughter is 7, but she knows which sites she is allowed to visit and only goes to them (luckily!) she also is good about asking before going to look at anything or using the computer, and always registers to my e-mail so that I can see what she is doing. We’ve had huge talks about not telling people addresses/phone numbers/names and she isn’t allowed on any chats, even on kids sites, without my consent. She has a facebook, and its family only, and she knows I can see what she is doing.
Simply change passwords every so often and avoid shady sites.
Change your email password often.
When using Facebook, check your privacy settings to make sure your profile and posts aren’t open to the whole world!
ALWAYS log off/out!!
My husband makes fun of me for it, but I use long passwords with combinations of letters, numbers, and nonsense words.
I don’t have websites save my cc info for next time. Better safe than sorry.
There are wifi spots everywhere. Be very careful what sites you access and what you type in on unsecured wifi. Be sure your computer firewall is turned on if you’re not on a password protected router.
You definitely need to be careful with putting too much info out there! I would suggest checking Facebook settings on a regular basis to make sure they are correct.
we try to rotate our passwords regularly. thanks for the great giveaway!
Change your passwords frequently
I use paypal and have for years — safest way for me! Thanks for the chance to win the new iPad!
Erm, if I work for the sponsor am I allowed to win? I’m not cheating or nuthin’. I learned about the contest from coolmompicks.com.
Anywho, I’ve been working on making my passwords more secure by adding numbers or symbols.
Run anti-virus and disk clean-up software regularly.
I keep getting errors, so I don’t know if my comment got through.
But I use PayPal for safe, online transactions.
We password protect our wifi.
I make sure that websites are protected before making a purchase.
Always lock your computer when you are away from it. You never know who is going to try to get on when you aren’t there.
Install Keylogger software on all of the computers in your home. This will allow you to capture all keystrokes on the computer and get usernames, passwords, emails, everything. Your teens may have an alias on social networking sites that you don’t have access to.
Your child’s phone should be password protected so that their friends cannot use the phone to make calls or send text messages to contacts pretending to be your child. I’ve also blocked media messages from being sent or received on my child’s cell phone.
I really use my spam filter and also have links turned off if they look “fishy”
I have two separate e-mail accounts — one for friends/family/bills and another one for catalog-stuff and other non-essential e-mails (e.g., those that often sell their lists). This is especially helpful in weeding out phishing scams.
Use passwords that include numbers in the beginning and end so it’s more difficult to guess the password!
I have a separate email address for all my online shopping
Read more: https://coolmomtech.com/2011/03/tips_for_keeping_privacy_online.php#ixzz1GMSZ0oVe
Changing passwords regularly and making them more complex is my best tip!
I have Google Alerts set for all of our names to see if (and how) we are popping up. I also have my Facebook set so that only certain friends can see my photos and other information.
I use paypal whenever I can and we rarely use our debit card online…we don’t want our bank account to be vulnerable. We stick with a credit card when at all possible (although paypal is preferred)
Instead of typing web addresses directly, type them in the search box to avoid potentially going to the wrong site.
christina(dot)francisco(at)gmail(dot)com
I have a second check card, not attached to my primary bank account, that I use for online purchases. I transfer money into it as needed, so if the card number is ever stolen, the thieves won’t get anything.
I have a separate email address that I use for all non personal email. Helps with spam and email hacking!
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I never store passwords or credit card info on the computer.
I NEVER open attachments that I’m not sure of what they are, who & where they came from, and have been told ahead (by the sender) that it is coming.
my husband his a software engineer, so I feel like he has everything pretty tightly “locked up” on all of our home computers. I know we personally make any passwords we use pretty complicated….using both capital and lowercase letters, as well as numbers
Mix up capital and lowercase letters in your passwords and also include numbers.
Never give your password to anyone.
Make sure your kids know it’s not a good idea to talk about things that can identify where they live like their school name or location or where they’re going…
this is a great step-by-step post on Facebook privacy settings.
https://www.techlicious.com/how-to/the-best-guide-to-facebook-privacy-settings/
thanks for the contest
What has helped me the most in internet safety is having a good virus and spyware program on my computer and keeping them updated.
Remember your online identity is a representation of you. Do not post anything online that you would not like your parents or employers to see.
I do not buy from main stream companies unless I can use PayPal.
Turn of the location setting for photos on your smart phone. Otherwise, if you post photos online, people can figure out exactly where you took the photo.
I started using the website doxo.com for extra security